There profiles are hard to write and so I'm going to put here part of what I wrote someone in a letter recently here:

It sounds like you are really tired of "approaches" and want a real person to talk to you. I'm a very genuine and real in a unique way. It's hard to sum it up and it's hard to do this over and over again on here lol but here I am a very trustworthy man. Let's stop there for a second and take a tour of that lol. A trust worthly man has to have a track record of that ... a reputation of that that didn't start yesterday. No fooling anyone and people knowing.. KNOWING he's that way.

I have that record in small casual ways and people who know me know it. So that I think it's a gift I can give a woman ... it really means something. Now I'm not a boyscout in personality I'm very carefree and funny but when it comes to honesty I'm hard core serious. I won't even say "she's not home" if you are and the phone rings. I'm not perfect about this and tend to not want to hurt people's feelings so I try not to be like some people just brutal about it. But I think you understand. So that's a big deal to me and I know you'd appreciate that so I said it haha. So what is cool is that when you build up that kind of reputation even family arguments can be kind of ended with "no I didn't do that I am telling you the truth" it's very powerful and neat and it's really worth it.

I wonder why most people don't realize this ... trust is worth having. I'm sorry if you were ever lied to. Maybe you were? Or else maybe you wouldn't stress it so. Well I am not Brad Pitt perfect or anything there are a lot of greater guys than me out there, but I'm trustworthy and it takes practice.. never settle for a guy with good intentions in this area but no record or practice.

I love people, am down to earth, make everyone laugh enjoy ... actually enjoy 5 hour conversations if that happens. I'm seriously not the typical guy but I'm still a man about it. No puppy dog here. If any of this makes sense lol maybe we can talk.. and it's so hard to get the chemistry just right that I realize it's not one thing - - it's many things that come together.. if you are looking for a strong man who can talk to you, but not be your puppy dog but who you can't control but who can get his way with love... lol then message me. I am a huge believer in encouragement and I'm a big believer in giving people who I have nothing to gain from my attention and respect and treating people who are not in the right social "class" decently and with honor.

It would be my honor to hear from you ... and if you don't write that's okay too ... but just know that at least on this service you have found one man who whether you liked him or not is honest and loving and balanced in these ways and that there is hope to find such men ... I know woman feel so often there aren't those guys ... that the world is made up of confident outgoing jerks or sweet puppy dog guys who will follow you around. One or the other. Some of us men understand that it means to really truly be a man ... we're out here - don't give up!

A couple different ways - we could go dine at a nice classy restaurant and then take a nice walk long by a nearby lake or waterfront. Maybe something less formal as a picnic in a park, or a tiny restaurant in the middle of the bustling downtown of the city where we could talk and take a walk and window shop. It doesn't have to be one way or the other. Maybe we'll end up at the airport watching people and planes take off.