just to get it out of the way, i've been married and divorced on three separate occasions, lol...well, can't say i didn't try! my being here is a lark for now - just to see what it's like so i'll keep it brief. i have children - teens - living at home, i'm new to this area i've only been here a year now, i have limited opportunity for adult interaction so maybe this site will at least provide an outlet, so if you're on here and striking out left and right and want to laugh about it i love to laugh out loud...i like to read, garden, fine dining, dancing, museums, and shop! i'll add more later if i decide to hang around...fair enough?

one week later: no, i don't have a cam, and no i shouldn't get one, and yes i do have a picture in a dress and heels but why? lol and by the way, the pic rating thing is fun and nice scores are very much appreciated (not that i'm desperate but pleeeaase, a one???? lol)

i suppose an update is in order...i'm not on high-speed access so often attempts to open a chat window with me are difficult....regardless i prefer initial contact via e-mail please.....just my way of weeding out the articulate from the masses (no offense meant if you're one of the masses but i'm sort of a cultural snob, i enjoy people who can express themselves)..... some nice people are here and if you're one of them, welcome.