I am a large man, and very active,I look macho; yet most people are struck when they listen to me .I speak from my heart always. I am compassionate, and can be an excellent listener.I do not participate in harmful games. My thing is harmony, my intention is always to find answers that positively effect the most people including myself, win win . I have studied myself and I know Randy pretty well. I am looking for people who question their fears , who wait a little when something new comes into their lives before they judge it.I don't drink or hang with people who are only drinking to drink. Alcohol doesnt bother me.I am a people person ,I love to watch people and what they do I always relate them back to me, if they do something that makes me mad I ask me why, And then I get an answer that helps me be a better me.I love water and deep forest,I would never live anywhere without mountains and trees.My biggest fear is of giving one hundred percent towards something and missing it by an inch,That and just falling short of my own goal or someone elses who I love.I hate to say no to anyone;but I will.
I love the intrigue and mystery of a first date the more intense the better. I like alternave rock , new and old country, almost all blues. I have little patients for small talk but I do try.

We would decide together,I would suggest somewhere we could get to know each other
where there is enough going on so to not have all the focus on us.I can be shy or gregarious depening on my mood and I cannot always control my mood.