I like haveing fun.... I am really active but can sit down for a night of movies but prefer be out in the Arizona sun. I am really honest in relationships, I like entimacey kinda a touchy feeley kinda guy... I like challanges in life and have a good idea of what I wanna do and where I wanna be... I really dislike being lied to and am looking for someone who is true and real... I hate relationship games I was merried for 5 yrs divorced now... learning experience for me.. Umm I like fun people, people who like gettin attention from there partner can be a persuer and doesn't mind be persued know what I mean so its not all one sided... I don't do the bar or club scene just an't my style.. I like makein people happy and I myself and probably overly happy and pretty energetic. I take good care of myself not obsassed with myself just know how I like to look and feel..I am also a romantic I like candles and rub downs with body oil, or traceing her body with a rose or another delicate item... I am mainly a giver though I like makein other people feel good just all around about themselfs i am some one who when you are havein a bad day can sit and listen and be understanding and sypathatic but I also will try to make you laugh and smile.. I am really reliable in hard times too help people coup and also handle bad situations well I don't mind helpin people out who are down on there luck, I think I am easily took advantage of sometimes due to the trust I place in people but I know not all people are that way... I wanna have a family and children kinda the happy american dream, I am life dedicated and just as dedicated to my relationships, my job is not my life just a part of life. people are probably woundering why settle down so early, cause I an't gettin no younger and just want someone to share my whole life with and life experiences.

go somewhere relaxing, get to know one another, maybe go out for a couple drinks or something alcohol seems to help people be more open and relax ya know but I don't think I would really wanna drink on a first date unless approved and it was what she thought would be nice.