Hello to all you handsome men out there! About me...never easy to write. Let's see...I flush public toilets with my foot. I love oreo cookies and anything with oreos. I sleep on the right side of the bed. Do you want to know more about me? Great!!!...then read on....

I love to read. I go to the gym about 4-5 times a week I have a daughter who is 20 yrs. old. I have a spoiled siamese cat who thinks she's a dog. I enjoy horror flicks, mystery and action. I also like chick flicks on a weekend when I just want to bumb around at home. Sssshhhh....don't tell anyone...lol.

I am independent (did I spell that correctly? where's spell check when you need it) and confident. I am also sweet and sincere and very kind hearted. I am very down to earth and real. However, one strike and you're out. No second chances.

I am looking for the same in a man. Honesty is a must. Communication is important. Someone who does not smoke or use drugs. Maybe occassional drinker. Drunk men turn me off. He must have a great personality and must be outgoing too. Shy men and geeks are good too...lol!! Actually, it's hot!! Most important, there must be chemistry. Physical appearance is important to me. There must be physical attraction as well as internal attraction. I have met many physically attractive men who are ugly inside. That's not what I want.

I'm really not looking for men who are seperated or going through a divorce etc....kind of thing. I am looking for a long term relationship. And please,please, if you have been out of a long term relationship 6 months or less, DO NOT CONTACT ME. I'm sure there are a lot of good men out there who are currently seperated-going through divorce, but I am at a different level in life and prefer no drama. For those of you who have been out of a long term relationship less than 6 months, the reason for me writing this is because I prefer someone who is ready to go ahead and still not hung up on their ex. I want him to focus on us and a future together. Sounds scary? Good, then that weeds you out too. I don't want my time being wasted. Not to sound rude, but when you've been doing this for so long, and have had no luck because people are not being honest, then you would understand why.

So, is that man out there?? I hope I hear from him. Thanks for reading my profile and have a wonderful day!!!

What would I do on a first date. Honestly, I have no preference. I'm open for anything fun or low key. What I don't look for on a first date is the movies. How do you get to know someone if you're sitting watching a movie?