first off, i know my profile is long and very descriptive. it doesnt mean im full of myself or that im an overachiever. lol. im just actually really trying to meet someone that would compliment me the best way possible, so i figured if i wrote as much as i could about who i am and what im looking for, then that would help weed out all the people that i might not click with too well. so if you get a message from me, please know that at least on some core level, i think we would genuinely get along with each other. im not the best at icebreaker situations, so forgive me if the first thing i say is hello. i figured its a good way to start

with that being said, my name is ron. 5'10", 170lbs, brown hair, green eyes, half irish, half cuban, all american. im looking to dive head first into the shallow end of the pool of love. i hold nothing back. im very real and i can be somewhat eclectic. i strive to someday use all of my brain, not just the 12% they say we use.

ive been considered a conservative rebel. i question everything and hardly ever accept whats told to me about what i should be and blah blah blah. im an extremely independant and self sufficient individual. i have a very vivid and sometimes graphic imagination. im dominant and submissive. i have huge respect for people who are clean and considerate of others. i get satisfaction from small things that most people overlook. for instance, when i go outside for the first time on any given day, i like to just breath in the air for a couple minutes and soak in what nature is offering me. im very mellow and tranquil. i dont get pissed off about stupid things, but i do have feelings that can be hurt and youll know it if you do something to upset me or hurt me. sometimes i curse, sometimes more than others.

i like all sorts of different kinds of rock, some bands being... the doors, pink floyd, david bowie, taking back sunday, the panic division, glassjaw, under oath, poison the well, cave in, atreyu, oh sleeper, ivory line, saves the day, the used, trust company, saosin, greeley estates, slipknot, bullet for my valentine, finger 11, disturbed, foo fighters, and many others!

im an open book.

i dont hide anything about myself and i love learning everything i can about the people i know. ive been playing drums for about 10 years and have dreams on making it big in the music industry. i will own my own business one day teaching others how to play. im also going to build my own race track and drag strip, and ill own my own racing team where im also the driver. driving is a huge passion of mine. im infatuated with all sorts of vehicles, whether it be cars, trucks, motorcycles, atv's, boats, or even tractor trailers.

i want a family someday.

im going to build my own home on about 20 acres, the house will be in the center surrounded by trees and ponds and pure serenity. i cant wait! im very loyal and dedicated. once i commit to something, nothing can get in the way. i love to hang out at home and watch movies/shows while cuddling with that special someone. at the same time, im all for taking random trips on a moments notice.

mini golf, bowling, and pool are some of my favorite things to do.

im a people pleaser which means ill do practically anything in my power to put a smile on your face. i know who i am, what i want, and what im capable of. i have lots of goals for myself and i will achieve them all no matter what it takes!

i love a good girl with a good head on her shoulders. one who is mature enough to be responsible, but immature enough to burp in front of me and act silly while were alone together. its very important to me to be with someone who has goals for herself and an actual plan on how to get there. i dont like know it alls cuz it shows just how rigid and somewhat ignorant they are. theres always room to learn more and nobody knows everything. i dont like girls who wear tons of makeup or that go to parties and start flashing everyone her boobs when shes drunk. i like a girl that feels at home in jeans and hoodies, without the never dying need to impress everyone she meets. im definately not a fan of playing games or messing with peoples heads. i need to feel respected and i do know respect is earned. all in all, im looking for a fairly attractive, smart, funny, witty, classy, spontaneous, thoughtful, and caring girl who knows what she wants and wants someone to experience life with.

im capable of offering the right girl more than any other person can because i hold no restraints to myself. almost everyone holds back when there in a relationship of any kind because theyre more interested in self preservation. i feel that the only way i can be the best i can to anyone, is to offer all of myself without regard to pain or emotional anguish. therefore, i am that guy that will take my shirt off for you in the freezing cold and i have done so in the past. im the guy that will stay up for hours waiting for a call just cuz you said you wouldnt be able to call till late. theres nothing i wouldnt do for the girl im with except allow her to cheat on me or betray me, i will not tolerate that at all from anyone. i think the relationships we build with the people in our lives are the most important thing in life. without someone to share in all of your experiences, all we are is just a bunch of solitary individuals with absolutely no substance to us at all. i want to be with someone that is willing to offer herself to me without trying to hold out for something better to come along, its unfair. if we all gave 100% to the person were with, we would soon realize that for the most part...the best is right in front of you. "in a world full of love and loss, the nice are naive and we're all neurotic" ~ron~

Love is like a foreign film without subtitles

Aim: TheHammer1985

P.S. I no longer have my plugs in my ears or my eyebrow pierced due to my job. I love my piercings and i have only 1 tattoo at the moment. Im definately going to be getting more tho, so i hope that you like that kind of stuff. Dont worry tho, i know what looks good and what doesnt.

I dont like going on your traditional first dates because i feel like it can be way too overwhelming as far as trying to impress someone. My idea of impressing someone is to show them exactly what kind of person you are and what you enjoy doing. so for my ideal first date, it would probably be just going out to a coffee shop somewhere and talking for a couple hours, then maybe go bowling or mini golfing so we can both let loose and just have some fun. Im also a big lover of nature, so anything we can do outdoors like walking thru a park or trail or even just sitting on a bench near a river would be heaven for me. im up for other things too, so just let me know what you feel comfortable with and we can go from there.