You could probably call me an "equal opportunity" relationship guy if you want to get technical. lol... I don't judge anyone until we get a chance to meet... Personality is the biggest factor in everyone... I'm generally a happy and friendly person... I like to be social but I'm a little shy at first around people I don't know at times... I have a 6 yr old son that lives with me.. He's gone every other weekend and then I like to have my fun but I know my limits... I like to sleep in, relax, go out for a few drinks and listen to some good music and every once in a while take a trip out of town for a change of scenery... With my son I like to go to the park or the beach and laugh at the fact that it takes him about 2 minutes to find someone to play with.

I'm looking for someone that has a great personality (not fake) and a nice smile... Somewhat laid back but not to the point ot total laziness... That's not too much to ask is it? ... Good, then I'll add a few more things I do want someone patient and open minded... I miss being romantic, getting lost forever in a kiss, and doing those cheesy little things to get a smile or laugh out of someone... I like to open doors (don't take it personal if I miss a time or 2)... the rest I should keep to myself so I don't spoil any surprizes... lol... oh yeah, and someone with a cute butt

It really depends on the person and the mood that you are both in... My idea of a perfect first date and one I can offer are 2 different things... My "idea" for a best first date with one person would be a nice dinner out, a movie, and maybe a walk down the pier... with someone else it may be more like having a few drinks and playing some pool ... A date I can offer is probably more like (during the week) going out to dinner with me and my son and either saying goodnight or we could watch a movie at my house... The other option would be (on a weekend) coming out to see me DJ, do a shot or 2 with me and hopefully we will both be glad you came out... I'd say I'm usually up for anything which is true but sounds so used up... So no matter what, if you're up for a fun night out on a weekend you could come by and hang out sometime so we can talk with no pressure.