Shouldn't ever ask for more -than you can give in return,,,, so at the moment, that just includes possibilites.
Not one for deciding how things should or will be - (no expectations) as each encounter can lead to so many different paths to follow, and some are just plain dead ends (smile) but its that illusive forever one, we all look for that keeps us fishin... Had a birthday on Sept 01st and the number didn't click over. hmmm

Want to share what we like now - discover the "new" together. I enjoy a creative mind, an adventurous spirit and a love of travel.



My adventures here have provided me with such wonderful laughs and stories: and because I love the absurd, I'm not jaded, just thankful for the experiences and if you find this funny, not nearly as much as I did:

It's not the destination, it's the journey that counts - and fishing here has been interesting lol. So here's a summary of things that MATTER in (BRACKETS) (smile)

A white woman I chatted with on IM turned out to be black when we met for coffee. (techno nerd she said she was - couldn't load a pic) lol (HONESTY)


A very fit woman turned out to be slightly over 275 lbs when met for coffee. (REALISTIC SELF IMAGE)

Another lady I had coffee with who was a world traveller, turned out to have never travelled but wanted to. (CLARITY) difference between doing and wanting, both are fine but just a bit different. (Recent trips - Alaska - Cuba - Vegas - Mari Gras)

Another coffee date turned into an out of body experience, where looking at her profile picture and seeing her across the table, was like shooting 15 years into her future, not bad looking but time travel is shocking to the system. (CURRENT, or IN THE NOW)

While i sipped my coffee, a woman ate 6 chicken wings, crunching the bones as she stared deeply into my eyes, and asked if I wanted to play, my only concern was not for the chicken or her teeth, but my body parts. (ok so i'm selfish at times)(NON-THREATENING) Is it too much to ask. to want to close my eyes when i kiss or sleep.

Another's grown up son that was the light of her life turned out to be a drug addict and I drank my coffee one night on hastings as we looked for him. Unsuccessfully. (QUALIIY FAMILY TIME)

I have been fortunate since posting this new profile to only have met some really sweet and normal people - guess the wild and whacky just don't want to be added lol

It could well be the coffee that is ruining all of the opportunities, but if you've just fibbed abit, then bring alcohol, it will help fill in the gaps much better.
I really don't want to go to decaf.


Anyway - Enjoy your own journey , somehow it's all good. Thats all that MATTERS!
(Well ok if this continues, alcohol might start mattering even more lol)

Seriously, I've met some wonderful ladies on here as well, all with special qualities that made them unique and I thank them as well. Especially those with dogs, love em.

If you see yourself on my favorites list, take the bait - don't be shy - its only a hello, or put me on yours and I'll say hello. Conversely, if your not interested, a simple delete button works like a charm. I'm far to lazy, to be a stalker (smile)

Haven't beaten the cigarette habit, but if non-smokers used the same amount of mouth wash as I do, the world would be a much sweeter place.

Doesn't seem to get any better than meeting for coffee so far.
or how about a couple of bagged bottles on a park bench (wink)

keep it simple and comfortable..

Eagle pics from brackendale - Jan 06/08 - this eagle acts like POF'ers, just biding time waiting for the right fish to come along lol