Expecting my mate to be all-that is stretching it a bit. But writing nothing ain't going to cut it either. In lieu of listing a bunch of qualities and coming across in the wrong way, i'll say this: I'm looking for someone who has passion, is strong willed and has a zest for life, who matches and also contrasts with who I am: and, actually, a person that I never want to stop learning about. I'd prefer to share my life with someone who is willing to live her life walking between passion and poise: and, above all, willing to take an optimistic risk. I would be pleased to discover in her a gentle, soft, caring yet independent personality: and, not to mention a rich sensuality requiring no exertion of will to animate it. Someone who does not fear what exciting minds and delightful bodies will discover together.
If this sounds like you I think everything else will fall into place.
Even if you lack that spark of passion I don't see why we can't at least say hello.

I don't think it matters what we do on a first date, and I am a big fan of simplicity, so a coffee and walk would be just fine."