I am a fun girl who likes to engage in new experiences. I mostly enjoy cuddling my kids, traveling, dining on seafood, reconnecting with any large body of water, bonding with the spa, having my arms around "the one" during a great flick, and on occasion rocking it out dancing. I also am the #1 fan of any sports in which one of my 3 kidddies is the star :) But, no....not a soccer mom. Won't do that. I like some sports...baseball and hockey games and I love NASCAR. Also, spending quality time with that one special person who makes my heart go pitter-patter and my breath stop for a brief moment is priceless.
I feel that I lead a pretty balanced life. I have made some changes recently that enable me to do that. I now have more time for my family, myself and perhaps someone special. I have a stable career that I have worked hard for and enjoy. I believe I have a lot to offer a man, a longeterm partner. Yes, I have a fun and silly side that everyone sees, but I also posess a serious, giving, loyal and committed side that very few see. I am willing to compromise at times, but I wil not budge on the chemistry factor. If its not there, I'm not there. A balanced relatonship for me covers all the angles ;) and that means that strong, magnetic chemistry is a must. If you think that we have many of these factors in common, write me! Let's see....you never know, life takes some pretty unexpected turns.

On a first meeting, I make it a point to skip the dinner and just meet for a drink. I tend to favor the no pressure method- I also think most others feel the same. I find it more relaxed and it actually makes the first meeting more enjoyable.

On the first date, I like to enjoy a nice seafood or steak dinner over a bottle of wine. Piano bars are great too. Somewhere a little quieter so we can get a chance to realy talk.

On the second or third date- Go! like mini golf, dancing or hanging around any body of H20