Decided to make a first paragraph for those that don't care to read the last paragraph, lol. Spend most of my free time with my son and daughter, they are in several sports and it's daily practice, games or activities. Not much time for hobbies anymore, but I do take an occasional bike trip and would enjoy having someone to ride with me. Like bikes,music(anything but rap)swimming and water sports, anything outdoors and camping (I host a huge campout/cookout/bash twice a year at our lake). Hot air ballooning, skydiving and mountain climbing. OK, now for the blah blah, been here a while and I can't figure these terms out.Hang out? Other relationship? Long term? Would you date someone you didn't
want to hang out with or vice versa? Blah blah blah!What is an other relationship? Blah blah blah!Would you have that "other" relationship with someone you wouldn't date?Blah blah blah! How about dating? Is it wrong to think long term or that there might be intimacy?Blah blah blah! How does one expect no intimacy after dating or a long term relationship. Is the expectation now for us to express interest with no desire for intimacy?Blah blah blah! Why are we here if not to experience the feelings that evolve when "being" with someone? It's very apparent that everyone has issues, however being judged for desiring intimacy or having expectations in any "relationship" is inequitable! What do you think? Does anyone even read this far? Good luck in the
search for that "perfect" someone, it's obvious we don't exist.lol

Just a regular, respectable guy that hit middle age and was told to go elsewhere for my needs. Driven but not a workaholic.Avid Motorcycle enthusiast, This is third time I've tried looking so I'm not expecting much. It doesn't matter what you put in here if no one ever responds. I'm not sure if the kind of women I'm
looking for are on this site. preferably alive with real needs like me

A quiet dinner and conversation with some good music is an ok start, but I'm looking for a real (and definitely physical!) relationship and don't want to spend 6mos. dating to find out someone has sexual hangups. Please leave your baggage at the door or keep on walking.