Update 06.24.2008 Still in search of someone that will make me smile, laugh out loud, hold me, and take me for rides through the countryside. Perhaps I'm too anxious but there's a bike rally I'd love to attend coming up and I'm willing and able to pay my own way. Hope someone out there will appease this wish of mine.
I had a conversation with a person from here telling me that I didn't qualify for BBW. LOL. Guess that's something! So.... for those of you that think I do.. just call me fluffy! Hoping that doesn't turn everyone off!
Widow of 4+ years in search of a relationship that is long-lasting and healthy. Would like to meet a man that is in search of the same. I'm told I have baggage but find myself wondering who doesn't. I am an alcoholic with over 2 years sobriety under my belt and am doing fine without it. I enjoy the simple things such as reading (I like the thesaurus and fiction), absolutely love primitive camping, long motorcycle rides, and just doing nothing. On occassion I am not adverse to a night out. I am comfortable with silence, having "alone" time, and spending time together. I prefer to laugh over cry, smile over frown, and riding over walking. I'd rather wear skirts and tops more than jeans, have make-up but rarely wear it, and love to walk barefoot except when necessity demands otherwise.

A first date would not dress up or down, would enjoy having coffee in an outdoor bistro, talking, getting to know one another.