Hi,

It is hard to fill this part out....it is not easy to talk about yourself and not sound conceited. I am gainfully employed and independent but would love to share my life with someone special. I moved here three and a half years ago and have made some great friends. But it is time for a little more.
My friends would say that I am attractive, fun and reliable. Always doing things for other people. Always putting others peoples needs first. I am extremely loyal and trustworthy and would appreciate the same.
Shy at first then WATCH OUT. I am active and willing to try new things but do not go to the extreme.
Looking for a secure, mature and confident man who is between the ages of 38 to 48. Should be physically fit and active but also able to snuggle and watch a movie, read or have friends over for dinner, drinks or even cards and boardgames. I enjoy most activities and I am very easy going.
Intelligence goes a long way, you should be able to read and write and I don't mean magazines. You must also be able to communicate, by that I mean be able to express your needs, dreams, wants, thoughts, doubts, feelings etc.
Everyone has baggage of some sort...but please have your head together...
You need to be able to talk in a relationship, it is about give and take, compromise, communication, honesty, mutual trust and respect. I am looking for my best friend. A sense of humour is huge bonus...I want to laugh until my belly hurts.
Is it too much to want to be swept off your feet....is chivalry dead and gone... am I dreaming.
Who knows...at the very least....a new friend..
By the way...all the photos except one are less than two years old.

I can think of a few things to do on a first date that would be fun.
- a walk or a fire on the beach
- go cart racing
- kayak lessons
- zip line adventure in Nanaimo
- rock climbing in Campbell River
- horseback lessons
- or even talking over drinks.
- dirt biking
- a play or any live theatre