I'm a laid back person;. Some of my best qualities are that I'm very loyal and kind, I have a great sense of humor and a very sweet spirit, I'm one heck of a pretty lady all in all a great catch..That said. I would love to meet someone who is the same way. Although my older sister teases me and says all the Sensitive boys already have boyfriends, I would love to prove her wrong.. To be honest would love to find a man who is looking for a relationship and can treat women with respect and dignity.. Though as I have plopped myself back into the dating world it seem that maybe my parents eldest is right.. The good straight men have become extinct, I would love to be proven jaded and not a realist.

Okay if you I.M me please don't be gross and all sexual I'm first and foremost I'm a lady, I like to be treated as such..

This is example of what I would like to avoid..In I.M.
Figures an example would be helpful...


HOW NOT TO TALK TO ME IN I.M.

Random sex starved guy: sexy woman
00redheadsaid00: Hey there Man.. How are you this wonderful Saturday?
Random sex starved guy: alright
Random sex starved guy: and your sexy ass?
00redheadsaid00: A bit tired.. Just got done with my first soccer game of the season
Random sex starved guy: I know of other ways to wear you out
00redheadsaid00: -blinks-
Random sex starved guy: if you were at all interested in that
00redheadsaid00: barely know you man.. Not really into giving it off to any and everyone..
00redheadsaid00: but your cute enough I'm sure you can find someone willing on the site who will love to be worn out.. LOL

Well first dates are awkward enough without the tension of the posing question of “Will I or Will I not click with this person."

I don’t believe in first dates I strongly believe that the best sort of relationships are the ones which are developed from friendships. So all that to say I do what I do with new friends I invite them for coffee or a movie and dinner so I can talk to them and get to know them.