How I try to live my life ...

LIVE SIMPLE,
SPEAK KINDLY,
FORGIVE QUICKLY,
KISS SLOWLY,
LOVE DEEPLY !




First of all and MOST important I am a christian, I do NOT consider myself religious at all. I do attend a church regularly, very non-judgmental, just trying my best to love as Jesus loves, NO ONE is perfect, I have a lot of flaws myself, But I do live my life with GOD being my number ONE!!

I have a 16 year old son that's very active in sports, he lives with me part time .. 4/5 days during the school year and 2/3 days during the summer, his dad and step mother are a very big part of his life, Family and Family value is very important to me as I have 3 sisters, one brother ,9 nephews and 4 nieces...
I have been divorce for several years, have no intentions of getting married just to be married or having anymore children, I love the one I have, but dont want to start over, I want to spend the rest of my life with the man that GOD has for me ...,I have learned since my divorce EVERYONE is different in there own way, we all have annoying quirk's either accept them AS THEY ARE or move on...so this leaves me with no desire to change anyone except MYSELF, I try daily to learn more about me and how to make ME a better person... love to read and learn about anything and everything, I'm a very curious person by nature, I question/ research every thing ..would diffidently love to learn how to spell ***thanking God for spell check *** lol.. my mother always said hooked on phonics does not work with the east KY twang !
I work 5/6 days a week in the telecommunication field, I enjoy my job (most of the time) I am independent and can pay my OWN bills...


anything else you would like to know ??


THINGS I Enjoy and/or that just make me smile !!!
LAUGHING AT MYSELF, swinging/reading in the hammock, strawberry preserves, SHOES, my favorite flower SUNFLOWER, ice tea, laying in the grass watching the stars, water skiing, football games, CHOCOLATE, Outdoor Theater/plays, chocolate covered fruit, SHOES, Chardonnay, Jane Eyre, Arabian horses, Princess Diana, christian music, sitting on my back porch watching thunder storms, SHOES, laying in bed talking all nite, tank tops, being spontaneous, Ar$nic and Old Lace, watching it snow, wine, watching people, laughing, playing football on Thanksgiving day (my sisters and I vs. our son's), SHOES, live bands, white water rafting, watching my son throw the prefect pass, laying in the sun, cook outs with friends, talking with old people, horse back riding,cold beer on a hot summer day, SHOES, laying in the grass watching the clouds, walking,landscaping, having a meaningful conversation with my son, hiking on the prefect fall day, walking in the sand on the beach at sunrise, SHOES, shopping trips with my sisters, weekend get away, being silly, acting silly, OH YEAH men that wear great smelling cologne!! ooooh did I say SHOES ?



I'm teasing about the shoes .. I really do try to live simple ..

1st dates, I really dislike then , if we can find a way to just skip the 1st date, start out instant friends that would be utopia ....so ... lunch dates work well for me