You know its tough to say what people want and what they are looking for. I've always been rather unselfish and charitable towards people. It does make me feel good to do nice things for people but it seems that it has put me in a quandry in the past whether sacrificing time for myself or ending up being the nice guy. I always hate it when people ask why are you still single your such a nice guy. You know I've about decided in this day and time being the nice guy is why I'm single. I try to be considerate to everyone. It takes a while for me to really open up when I meet someone. I guess it is being a bit nervous or maybe thoughts of the past. I guess being nice has made me a bit vanilla also. But take the time to get to know me. I know alot of people say they have to have a spark but do you really know someone after one meeting. They say Rome was not built in a day you know. anyway, if you really want nice and honest then I'm a good choice. It seems thats not the true choice of people these days. They say thats what they are looking for but its not what they really want.

Lets get to know eachother and go from there. I want to find the person that we both take the time out and get to know eachother. One that will be a compliment and a best friend. I dont mean for the first part to come off as bitter sounding but just as someone that is willing to invest in the time of getting to know you first.