From The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt - "Intimacy is based on shared vulnerability...nothing deepens intimacy like the experiences that we share when we feel flayed, with our skins off, scared and vulnerable, and our partner is there with us, willing to share in the scary stuff"

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Dominant, fetish/kink/BDSM friendly, discreet, good humoured outgoing well tanned professional living in the Comox/Courtenay area. Clean, STD free, well groomed and mannered comfortable with all social settings. Dependable and reliable willing to travel a reasonable distance. Once you get to know me, you have my devotion and commitment as a friend, lover or partner.

Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming ...'Wow! What a ride!

Whatever we decide coffee, light lunch, walk on the beach ... just see where it goes from there.