ok, so this describe yourself part is harder that anyone actually imagines
I had written something and then read it wow, that was not me.
it sounded so stiff and not really who I am so I spent some time trying to figure me out
Not putting a best foot forward just putting myself out there.

I have a three year old son, I adore him, he is high energy, and I have him every other week for the week.
and although I am certain that anyone I meet is a wonderful person, I wont be introducing him to anyone.
He is taking the living in seperate places badly and don't want to make anymore changes until he is
doing better and I am certain it would last.

Sorry did not update this sections, I am divorced! We completed the mediation, We sign on March 6.
Feels like a victory and a defeat. It would be easy to say it is all her fault to demonize her and
try to come out looking like a saint, but the truth is somewhere between saint and devil.
We both have to accept some of the blame. I think that it might be that we both put our best foot forward,
everyone does and that is not who we truly are. Perhaps a better idea would be to put your worst foot forward
and hope that you are accepted for who you truly are. So here it goes.......


Ok so I am Rob, and I know I am not supposed to tell anyone that but oh well.
I am a Business Intelligence Analyst, I make sense out of the numbers.
That is what I do, and although that sounds so fascinating and exciting that is what I do and not who I am.
and actually it is pretty dull stuff

Most freinds would call me happy go lucky, typically not a big worrier or planner in my personal life.
Freinds would probably describe me as generous, easy going, fun, gregarious. I think the experience is so much more important than reading it

I love sailing, the quiet, the challenge, the power, the peace a good day on the ocean can bring.
I have a great passion for scuba, bicycling, gardening.
I would like to find a friend, a lover, a sailor, a dive buddy, a copilot, or non of those.
If your not interested in those things, thats ok too. Two people don't have to be glued together.

I have a home in the Montrose and on weekends I don't mind diving into a maintenance project or just being around the house
Love movies, have a huge movie collection (please no talking during the movie), love traveling.
I completely adore and have a massive 80's music collection. Yes the clock top about 93. Hey my son is too small to know so don't tell him ;)

I cook, love to cook, extremely good at it, Never has person walked away saying it was ok.

Not a huge drinker, socially, some partying from time to time, never been a smoker.
Don't mind smokers, it is not my place to judge.
Drugs, never, no thanks.

Today, find peace with myself and with the ex. Try to live with out that anger we had towards each other.
Tomorrow, raise the most beautiful happy son, in an accepting way. Travel explore and Enjoy this life.
Enjoy each day as they come, make the most of them.
If someone comes along with a great smile and great outlook on life, maybe they will come along for a while or for good.


well thanks for taking the time to read this, perhaps you'll drop a line and we can talk

rob

Have a cup of coffee, look for chemistry ask questions, listen to responses.
Then may be invite a person over to make dinner and get to know someone better.