well? let's see. where to go. been single for about 4 months now. have been on here with no luck so i took a break. looking for a woman that is smart and witty. also has a sense of herself. wants her own time and space but then want to include me when the mood hits her. more than that? well everyone says they know what they are looking for. what i have found is this. we may think we know but what we find is something or someone we never expected.....so thrill me and let's see where things go. past that...i have no real idea what to say or how to open this up. i'm better when i'm safe behind a bar. lol

oh and i am currently working on the whole smoking thing too.

It all depends.