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hopeflguy The Seahorse: Looking for the *Sweet Miracle*..of love
 
City SaintCatharines Ontario
Area Canada
Ethnicity European
Sign Capricorn
Height5' 11" (180 cm)

 
Age 39
Gender Man
Body Type A Few Extra Pounds
Religion Non-Religious
Hair Color Black
Private Images Yes
Chemistry View | Relationship Needs: N/A

 
I am Seeking a Woman Who is Looking for Long Term

 
Smoker? No
Do you drink? Socially
Marital Status Single
Profession Social Worker /Autism Therapist
Smarts Some university
 
Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Do you do drugs? No
Do you have children? No
Do you have a car? Yes

  Interests
Angels and AirwavesRick MercerMichael Moore
Council of CanadiansBill MaherHATE UFC - is there not enough violence in this world
ArtisticMusicConcert Going
Bass Guitar PlayerDrummerU2
Jon StewartColbert ReportHiking
PoliticsPhilosophyHumanist
liberalAmnesty InternationalHuman Rights Activist
Anti-Poverty Activist

 About Me
 
"The truest characters of ignorance are vanity, pride and arrogance.”

~Samuel Butler

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No one falls in love by choice, it is by CHANCE.
No one stays in love by chance, it is by WORK.
And no one falls out of love by chance, it is by CHOICE

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Member, The White Ribbon Campaign
"Men against violence towards Women and Children"

http://www.whiteribbon.ca/


"Somewhere around the world someone would love to have my first world problems"

~Matthew Good




(Just to summarize, since I don't seem to have gotten these things across in my profile. I am: SINGLE, MONOGAMOUS, NON-VIOLENT; good-looking (did I say meek and humble??..lol); intelligent; educated; very worldly-knowledgeable; very empathetic and caring; youthful looking; somewhat big and tall build (no, not really 'fat' or 'obese', but I do get angry at superficial people hung up on looks; prefer passing an evening with a drink and a friend (or lover), rather then going to some football game; despise greed, selfishness, and rudeness; am in it for the long run..)

Okay..here we go. :) What I try to offer is genuine and a labour of friendship, and then maybe, love. Me, I am a strong, happy, and very nice guy (who doesn’t always have to finish last.) I am deeply romantic. I am not..I repeat…am not looking for a “fling”, friends with benefits, etc. I am trying to shape up better just for my own health, and am happy with the pace. I do this by exercising, very long walks, biking, and by trying to watch what I eat. I believe that coming into my 40`s, I have an obligation to family and friends to keep healthy. I have always been, and will always be, monogamous. I see women complaining that most men on here are looking for "flings" and such, so here is a GUY WHO IS NOT. :) I am NOT the POSSESSIVE type..and I always view a relationship as a democracy. I am a responsible, passionate, caring guy who can admit he was wrong. I have my $*it together, and a very deep, deep well of love, friendship and understanding.)

I am intelligent, and enjoy long, deep, thought-provoking discussions about everything/anything. Life and love, to me, are very precious gifts, and as we are only around for so long, I yearn to connect. I believe most of the secrets to life are hidden in the great works of everything from fine literature, art, to amazing music. I consider myself a life-long student. Discussing poetry and meanings of songs, or just cuddled together in front of a fire listening to some sweet song, with some nice wine, is beauty to me. I am also an 'amatuer' musician, and have a large compilation of songs (instrumentals) that I work on in my very little home studio.

Basically, I am a single guy looking to start as very good friends that (*will stay as very good friends and..*) maybe/hopefully will turn into more. (This does not mean "friends with benefits"..) First and foremost, I am an easy going guy who can get along with almost anybody, no problem. I am a lover of (eclectic) art, literature, music, and all that groovy stuff that exists in this tiny corner of the universe. I like everything from Matthew Good to Sarah Mclachlan, Alexisonfire to Metric, as well as ambient electronica, U2, good jazz and folk music. Still looking at writing the best song ever; finishing my university degree; travel to every corner of the earth; write the best book out there...etc. Ah heck...on the other hand, I'd rather be lounging a very beautiful lake up North, (with my partner, a LOT...I hope..) with some fine drinks and music, and doing a bit of photography and such. If you like what you hear, please drop me a line.


Member, The White Ribbon Campaign
"Men against violence towards Women and Children"

http://www.whiteribbon.ca/

 First Date
  A *great date* to me, is one that is a unique, enjoyable and maybe even a bit of an adventurous experience. Good conversation and fine food/wine are real pluses for me. I absolutely don't expect the first date to be "the ultimate judgement" of another person. Sometimes it takes a few dates. As far as activities, I am game...say, a hike through a conservation area, then for dinner and drinks, and I would be tempted to leave it open at that point. I like strolls along moonlit beaches; having a conversation underneath the earthshine of a moonlit sky. Honestly, I like to leave a fair bit to spontaneity.


 
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