Looking for my second chance on love, didn't do so well the first time. I've learned a lot over the past few years and have grown. The way I've always learned, the hard way, however I don't count any relationships I've been involved in as mistakes, just another opportunity to learn more about myself as well as others. I am very picky and I'm not into one night stands. I really just want to enjoy the rest of my blessed life with someone special. My 18 year old son is not going to need his mom much longer...Ideally I would love to meet a guy that has hair, however I don't really like guys with real long hair either. I'm sorry guys I'm just not attracted to bald men. Also please don't contact me if you are in a relationship with someone or if you are extremely young. I'm not into dating guys that are 10 or more years younger than I. I'm not a rich older woman looking for a good time, I am a single mom just trying to make ends meet and find true love. I truly don't understand why if you're in an unhappy relationship, that you are even on here, get out first then look for someone else, not until you are at least separated. That's just not fair or honest!
Also, I hate to sound picky but I don't care for body builders, or real skinny men. Can't handle the pressure!
If you contact me and I sent you an e-mail last, I'm not going to send you another one. My mom taught me that ladies don't chase after guys. That's not to say that if we are in a relationship that I won't do my part. Like most women I love attention, giving and receiving!

First dates should be a time to get to know one another. God gave me the gift of gab so don't worry about this date being boring.... Perhaps I talk too much but I love sharing my thoughts and listening as well. I'd love to find that special guy that I can't wait to just hold his hand, I'm a very affectionate lady when I get to know you, but don't expect me to be until then. Please be kind and don't kiss a lady without asking for permission first. That's a real gentleman!