I'm shy at first but once I warm up then its all you can do to keep me from talking, lol, just kidding. Please just give me a chance and you'll see I'm someone you'll want to be around even if its just being friends.
I've been reading a lot lately and realized that if I'm ever going to have someone in my life I need to get out and do something. I'm hoping to find someone that can show me that there is a reason to being here other than working.
Yes I know I'm BBW but this summer my goal is to lose some of it. I do have back problems so its harder to do a lot of things but I usually will give it a try or two lol.
I'm not jealous but tend to like guys that are! I love it when a guy is willing to make me feel special.


Phenomenal Woman


Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I'm telling lies.
I say,
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
Then they swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.
I say,
It's the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing in my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them
They say they still can't see.
I say,
It's in the arch of my back,
The sun of my smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing
It ought to make you proud.
I say,
It's in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
The need of my care,
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

~Maya Angelou~

My ideal first date is a cup of coffee and a walk around a park its where I feel the most at peace