NO PICS, NO REPLY!!!!!!!!! HOW COME NO ONE GETS THIS??????? NO PIC = DELETE!!!!

A soft, squishy, round BBW (5'5", 220lbs), happy, playful, casual, nothin' fancy, independent, blindly optimistic, mindlessly blunt, open and painfully honest, and a wee-bit shy, trust me, I would not go out of the house as exposed as some of the pictures are...they are just for 'full disclosure' purposes, and for putzin' around the house. As with the pics of the tats, just to let you know I have them. I'm kinda ordinary, enjoy playing house and in the yard, music, movies, etc.

I'm lookin' for someone ('one' being the important part!) A big, burly teddy bear type, honest, open, and assertive, with a bit of grizzly, tough enough to handle a bit of back-east (Philly) attitude.

Okay, I guess I need to add a bit more. Please have a picture, please be at LEAST 50+. And I'm not interested in men who are married or attached. I'm not interested in meeting for sex. I may not always reply to your message right away, if I've read your message, I'll probably mull it over before I reply...'slow and easy' is my mantra! However, I would not want to e-message or phone-call forever, preferring to meet/greet prior to divulging all the little details of myself. I am a pretty private person until I get to know someone...then all you have to do is ask...and I will share all.

I prefer a quick coffee/drink meeting first to see if there is any connection. I will not make 'first-contact' with anyone, nor will I ask you out, sorry, I'm just alittle old-fashioned in that sense.