Looking for someone/something genuine. Does that still exist? Tired of reading profiles which all say the same thing (aren't you?). Also tired of profiles with bikini shots, web cam cleavage shots, laying across the bed shots, or hard looking tattoo'd shots ( any of those are about as appealing as you would find a guy posing next to his sports car/motorcycle/boat/...in a speedo...trying to show off his build).
I appreciate a woman who knows who she is & doesn't post the gimmick/skin shots trying too hard to impress some guy who is only looking for physical. Looking for someone who is unique, has class, and respects herself. Someone who has as nice a time walking into a backyard as onto an airplane when she is with the man she wants to be with. It's more about connection than entertainment. If we mesh, we will decide what is fun for us.

* It is amusing that some of the profiles without a picture and/or indicating they only want a "friend", now show they are "serious" in their search with that annoying yellow dot? Are men doing the same thing?
It is also amusing (in a pathetic way) to read the sappy 'testimonials ' written by some groveling guy making one last attempt to gain a womans attention. Do they think you are so stupid as to think....'awww what a wonderful guy to have written that'. LOL Cracks me up. It also make a woman look like a serial dater when there is a bunch of them attached to her profile.
Guess it is at least good for a laugh in a mostly dismal site.

Casual setting, conversation, a drink and/or a bite to eat, get to know a little about the other.