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fnkbean : The Lotto Jackpot is now.......
City
Laurence Harbor New Jersey
Sign
Virgo
Height
5' 9" (175 cm)
Age
46 year old Man
Ethnicity
Caucasian with Brown hair
Smoker?
No
Body Type
Athletic
Religion
Christian - other
Rate My Picture
No
dating
 
 
 
I am Seeking a
Woman
For
Long Term

Do you drink?
Socially
Marital Status
Single
Profession
school teacher/musician
Smarts
Masters degree
Do you want children?
Does not want children
Do you do drugs?
No
Do you have children?
Yes
Do you have a car?
Yes
 
  Interests
cookingmusictravel
About Me

My transition is nearly complete! The capacity to dream, grow and change has met up with a couple of good breaks. I'm not so sure about the "what goes around, comes around. Frankly, I don't even care. What I do know is if you plant enough seeds and take the time to care for them, a few are going to REALLY grow. The problem is that you never know which one it will be.

I Walked out on a limb about 10 years ago and was left there while my ex. was climbing down the tree. Now I find myself finally on firm ground and am beginning to race towards the next phase of my life and looking for someone to share it with.

At the moment, I see it as "intersecting circles" (do you remember Venn diagrams?) Your separate life + my separate life + life together. The amount of each will change from week to week and possibly over time. Does that sound reasonable?

Some words that describe me are:
* Resilliant
* Creative
* Attentive
* Articulate

I've been told:
* Your'e a great guy
* You're a hunk (by a friend who is like a sister to me.
yeah, I liked that one. lol)
* You're the best dada in the world. (I love that one!!! It's my number one goal.)
* We love your class (and I love the kids too!!!!!!!)

* You have a face for radio. (With friends like that, who needs enemies?

Recently, I had a humbling moment when I realized that I actually like the music they play in Shop-Rite. Damn! LOL

What about you?

I'll answer all e-mails and IM's

B

First Date
I know it's a little shallow but it's just tough getting attached emotionally (even a little bit) to the person behind the profile and picture to find out that they're not the person you're meeting on Saturday night.

I'd prefer a first meeting.

How about a drink or cup of coffee first?

We'll quickly know if the conversation flows and the attraction is there.

Sorry ladies, but this 3 -5 year old picture thing is not fair. It's kind of like grammar school, one person ruins it for all the rest. (trust me, it's more than one person)

I look way better in person than any of these pictures.

I'm 194 and 5' 9"

Haven't lost any teeth or (much) hair since then either. Although I do shave on a daily basis. Does that count? Oh, and yes, I wear jeans and a t-shirt.
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Hello ladies, I just had to write a few words about my friend Bruce. He is a wonderful, caring, warm, funny, intellegent man. He is a great father to his girls, He does more than most of the men I have met to care for his children.We met on POF and hit it off right away!!!! Unfortunately we live to great a distance from eachother to make it work. So Girls, all I can say is you are missing out on one GREAT guy if you don't give Bruce a second look . I can truely say that I have made a good friend in him and am very happy to have done so!!!!!!

after a great conversation with him,, I can honestly say, this is a man I want to get to know more,, its too bad we are not close enough to spend more time together.. he's sweet and respectful and incredibly nice, very different than most of the piggies on this site,,! I enjoyed our conversation, and hope to chat again with my new "friend", who knows, maybe we will spend more time knowing each other and find the distance not so bad,, so ladies, leave room for me,,!


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