Life doesn't need to be hard but it's so much more fun if it isn't easy. (:

I want to send out some really positive energy to everyone who is genuine. You are all fantastic, and deserve the best, so if any of you feel you are not getting the best remove that negativity from your life and replace it with those who treat you as if you are the most beautiful being in the world because each of you are. Don't just settle for things because that’s what your life has become, change them.

I have reached a point now where I only have those around me that mean something and make me feel bloody good, in the past it was up down up down, happy, devastated, happy. Now obviously life can't always be good but the people who you choose to have around you can be.

Trust your instincts when you meet new people you will not be wrong, if you feel drained by someone gently distance yourself or if you feel you need to help them make sure you don't end up getting drained in the process.

On another note I want to learn a martial art, i've done judo and some tai chi, but they wern't high impact enough for me, anyone out there who wants to teach me, give me a shout hehe.


And finally lol, OK so what you are about to read makes me sound a little grrr, but i'm actually quite fluffy, I just write like I talk and I was a bit miffed (:

I do not reply to people if they have no picture. i've been getting a lot of fakes on here and it is really annoying me, so I want to to see lots of pics or webcam please. Charlie is STUBBORN, FIERY and SPIRITUAL. Loves discovering new things. Has to tell people the TRUTH even if she ends up putting her foot in her mouth and being ostracized. Getting the picture that i'm mildly irritated by FAKE people much lol.

Interested in someone who is REAL open to the idea there might be something more out there, we cannot see yet. Who can have fun, and is lighthearted. Please, please, please do not contact me if you have loads of baggage or you are an emotional cripple hehe.

Please don't contact me if you live far away from South East London. Within 50 miles of Croydon is fine lol. I Often go to Central london and around Camden as most of my pals live there. Having a brain is attractive to me too, though i have to admit mine seems to go missing sometimes, usually after a weekend in london lmao. If you have read this far and you are on myspaz heres my addy, says more about me than this site does. w w w dot my space dot com forward slash alternate7

Oh yes and boys if you're just after a I suggest you go elsewhere

If you got this far, well done hehe, as you can see i'm a bit random. ;p

Pub where talking for hrs is an option lol, and then a club depending on if my date fancies it or not. Still looking for one of those evasive pubs that stay open all night, last one I went to in London was closed hehe.

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