I am a sweet natured and fun loving gal. I am looking for someone who knows how to treat a lady. Mutual respect and communication are key, and I believe that friendship is a positive foundation for any relationship. I am classy, yet very down to earth. I consider myself very versatile and I adapt well to many different environments. I like all kinds of music from Country to Rock to Hip Hop but I think 80's is my fave. I am generous of heart, and hope to meet others who are as well. I am very genuine and forthright and give my all to whatever I am involved with. I don't do anything half-heartedly and I don't play games in relationships. I hope to meet someone who is real, who likes to have fun, can laugh at themselves and with whom I share similiar interests. I am an outgoing, positive and honest person. I'm optimistic and always looking for the positive in life. I laugh a lot and like to make others laugh too. I'm educated, independent, have a good job and have goals. I like to travel and plan to do more if it this year. I like to keep busy hanging out with friends, going to the beach, sailing, traveling, movies, live sports, music events , hiking, bbqing, waikiki , dinner, dancing , putt-putt, bowling, shooting pool, camping, kayaking, etc... I love bonfires on the beach and am always up for that. I also like to stay in from time to time for quiet evenings cuddling and watching a movie. I'm really not so much a clubbing kind of girl. I prefer a local watering hole or small bar where you meet up with friends to relax, talk story and have fun times with. My favorite places to go hang out are Bob's or Pinky's in Kailua. Looking to meet cool and interesting people to hang out with and be friends first and then see what happens. If there is a connection, will take it from there. Ultimately I'd like to be in a relationship with someone I consider my best friend. I'd like to meet someone who is honest, intelligent, kind, affectionate and knows what he wants in life. I'm not into games or drama and like to keep life simple. I can have fun in any situation and like to be spontaneous. Some of the best times I've had have been just doing something random on a moments notice. Life is what you make of it. I'm only looking for those living on Oahu. I'm looking for a nice guy with old fashioned family values. I'm not looking for casual sex or hookups and if you don't have a picture, I won't respond. I'm looking for someone who is not shallow because Beauty fades but dumb is forever....BTW, I'm 38 yrs old but the site won't allow me to change it.

Either go to a sports bar/restaurant, have pupus and drinks and talk, or go out to dinner and go for a walk on the beach.