Ok I guess I am bored and will update this thing. Tired of trying to play nice on here and be honest, then all I get in return is a wanna be player. Come on guys, you know who you are, and all I have to say is PLEASE! LMAO

First off, yes I am a BBW. That may mean anything to anyone. I am overweight, get over it or not. I don't care. Doesn't affect me one way or another. I am a good person and an even better mother. I am not lazy actually I am quite the contrary. I work my ass off to support my son and I. I don't need any help with that. We do just fine thank you very much. With no child support and no government assistance. Who would have thought? Geesh!

Second of all be honest with what you want. If it is a booty call, say it is a booty call. It may not matter. LOL But I think it is fair that you give the other person involved a chance to decide if that is what they want. You can't play a player guys.

I am a busy woman. I am not here to stroke your ego and tell you how hot you are. I work 50 plus hours a week and I have a home and a child to take care of. Leaves little time for dating and getting to know someone, but isn't it worth the wait sometimes? Anyway, I am looking for the real deal. I do not own a cam and am certainly not here for anyones entertainment. I don't do cyber sex or phone sex. DO NOT ASK!

I am not bitter...LOL.. Can't ya tell. I have just been in this dating game long enough to know what I don't want. I will hold out for the one who I can't wait to get home and hug everyday. And spoil rotten.. I am very affectionate and passionate. If you don't plan on communicating, don't add me. Whats the point?

In person, I am shy, not very aggressive until I get to know someone and we have established what kind, if any kind, of relationship we are going for.

Love music, anything outside, travelling, shopping (i am a girl!), hanging out with my son, and FOOTBALL. I am a fanatic when it comes to football.. Nothing better than grabbing a six pack and watching football on sunday! Don't happen very often but its fun to kick back..

Oh and no alcoholics and drug addicts PLEASE! I am already raising a child, if I had wanted another one I would have had another one. I think it is funny that everyone on here says they don't do drugs. Why would y ou advertise that info??

Oh and maybe clean up a little and put a sheet on your bed before taking pics to post on the internet for thousands upon thousands of people to see... ;)
Good Luck and take care..

Oh and my son is 9 and has Asperger Syndrome and ADHD. Awesome kid and we do not let that define him, but he is a very mature and independant kid. Definitely gives me a run for my money!

First date? Well I guess SURPRISE ME. Maybe a concert, picnic in the park.. Something unique. Use your imagination on this one, it doesn't take much to impress me if your heart is in it!