Wow, where to start, how does one go about writing down a few sentences that sounds like the world to another or separates it from the rest, guess I will give it my best and let you tell me if its worth getting to know me a bit more.

Firstly, my pictures are the real me, nothing produced or posed or ten years ago, just me being me (silly in some I know). I am in fairly good shape for being over 40, thats not too say I don't like good food but have learned to watch those bad calories during the week and stay regimental in my excercises during the week (weights and biking work for me).

Weekend anything goes for me, from playing on the beach, driving around town with the top down, hitting a cool restaurant or heading out of town to Whistler or Kelowna or even surprise, surprise the comfy sofa with a big comforter and a bowl of popcorn, it all counts.

I am fortunate to have a professional job downtown that I enjoy "can drive me crazy somedays" but still very rewarding. Have an awesome bunch of friends and siblings, lost my mom a couple years ago "thats still a tough one" but she left me with words to live by forever, so you do go on.

I believe in "true love" vs unmeaningful sex, the latter is easy to find but the former is harder to obtain but once found can drive you to all thats amazing in life. I won't lie to you, I have had my heart broken (haven't we all?), all thanks to those young and foolish days, but the heart does heal and I wouldn't take anything back as that is what I feel makes one grow and become a better person.

I have been the bad boy and the good boy at different points in my life but now I have found that being the "good man" is the way to live ones life, I do seem to have that certain confident edge now, not sure if you can call that "bad" though, I think it is a cool thing.

I believe its ok to be a mans man, to open the door for a woman, pay for dinner, wear the 5 o'clock shadow every once in awhile or simply fix things around the house but then to be pampered by his gal with dinner or a massage (head scratching ones are heavenly). I like a woman that is assertive, knows what she wants, smells good, looks good, whether its in her favorite pair of jeans or mini but by no means do you have to look like a "fake barbie" to win over this guys heart, we all see outer and more importantly inner beauty differently and that is definately true for me.

If you are thinking "uh huh" this guys is arrogant or egotistical, far from it, I am just very confident and secure but yet can be humble and sensitive and compassionate when you least expect it. I also believe dishonesty and immaturity has no place in my world, loyalty and being yourself and totally genuine "rocks my world".

Oh, almost forgot, now as for some of my weaknesses, sharing a Christmas night/morning together "simply magical", that someone who expresses kindness and caringness no matter what the situation "thats an amazing ability", finally someone who can look into my eyes and words then become unimportant cause there is a connection that no one can touch or even comprehend.....

Well there you have it, just a small taste of what makes me, "me", if this interests you, intrigues you, moves you or simply makes you think "hmmm", well you know what to do, don't ever regret taking a chance, chances can create the most awesome of experiences.

Cheers, S.

hmm, could start with a quick drink at a cool cafe first or perhaps a quick game of mini-golf, I know a great one to play at "I may even let you win - wink", wait a minute, how about doing both, ohhhhhh I am trouble (ha, ha, ha).