Im looking for SOMETHING REAL!! Ive played all the games and am well aware of what a pretty face and nice body can get me. At this point in my life its time to look within myself and stop the BS & games and find the man that can totally complete me. Ive been numb for so long not allowing anyone to close in fear of getting hurt only to realize by doing this Im only cheating myself of finding True Love and Happiness. Like I said, Im at a point in my life that I am ready and willing to open my heart and allow that someone special in and take a chance even at the risk of getting hurt. Nothing ventured nothing gained right! So here I am doing what I never thought I would do! I am pretty, loving, intelligent, passionate (and I apply that to all areas of my life), secure within myself, great personality, sensitive to others and kind. I am Italian, originally from Brooklyn living here in Jersey near the Outer Bridge for the last 10 yrs. I was raised in a typical Italian household/family. Big Christmas Eves FISH, FISH and more FISH!! A little red wine with a glass of soda, force fed Jimmy Roselli, Jerry Vale, Dean Martin and Lou Monti, lots of loud family and of course all the women in the kitchen and all the men in the living room and I have carried the tradition on in my own family. LOL I treat people the way I want to be treated, Im for the most part pretty Old School in my values, Respect, Loyalty, Family, all big issues with me. I will give the shirt off my back to someone but if I think they are taking my kindness for weakness I can do a 180 in a heartbeat!! I want someone to accept me for me, not what I look like. Like I said, I played Barbie to many men for way to long and now I want the REAL THING. I lost my mom on Easter Sunday and it opened my eyes to the fact that life is to short to just exist I want and need to be happy. I am 5.7, 160LBS (YES I COULD STAND TO LOOSE 20 LBS!!), Long Brown Hair/Eyes, pretty, down to earth as they come, passionate and very sexual, stubborn at times, very focused when I want something I dont stop until I achieve my goal and I can cook my ass off!! LMAO I have alot to offer the right person, I know what I want out of life and in a man and I wont settle for anything less, nor will I give up hope until I find him. I am on a mission to find the man I want to spend the rest of my life with.

So with all that said, you should be preferably of Italian decent as I am. I find that I can relate to that type of man because we come from the same worlds so to speak. You should be mentally and financially secure, good looking, have a good head on your shoulders, have sowed your oats, street smarts, not afraid to step up to the plate when need be, know what you want and not be afraid to go after it, tough but yet sensitive when it comes to me :-) I need a man I know will protect me with his life as I would him. You should have a good sense of humor and can make me laugh even when Im mad at you :-) passionate, generous and sweet. I LOVE IT WHEN I SEE A COUPLE IN A STORE AND THE HUSBAND CLEARLY DOSENT WANT TO BE THERE AND SAYS "GIVE HER WHATEVER MAKES HER HAPPY" KNOWING FULL WELL HE JUST WANTS TO GET THE HELL OUTTA THERE!!) LOL, he has a good heart and values and most importantly will stand by me thru good and bad and capable of giving Unconditional Love as I will him. Sounds simply enough right, so then why so hard to find??

So if you think you can relate to anything I have said and am what I am looking for please tell me alittle about yourself. If you have any questions please feel free to ask. PLEASE, PLEASE BE OUT THERE!!

Ideal first date would be dinner or coffee in a nice quiet place so that we can talk and see where it goes from there.

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