I guess it is safe to say that whatever you've tried till now hasn't quiet worked out... Maybe it's time to try something different?
As for me... I love my life! I love my family! I love my friends! I even like my job! I have a smart and beautiful daughter that I wouldn't trade for the world. I am more than book smart. I love adventure and learning about pretty much everything. I adapt and can be just as pretty in flip flops as I can be in hiking boots or high heels. I guess the only thing that could make my life sweeter is a partner to share with. For now, I am content to wait patiently.

After an initial introduction in a very public place where I can frisk you for duct tape, rope, or any other weird items... seriously/joking... Lets see, on average, going to dinner/drinks and leaving the rest of the evening open ended. This would give us time to chat, get to know things about each other and see where it goes from there. On the contrary, anything daring, exciting, out of the norm, worst case, it'll be fun. It really depends on the person I am with. The most important things would be getting to know each other and seeing if we wanted to take it on to a second date... I have taken interest in wine tasting. Maybe it is something you can introduce to me.