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***Please read the update below*** 8-3-2009

I'm looking for true love. I want someone to want to be with me all the time. A soulmate I can depend on. A strong fun loving unselfish man who wants to be a husband and a father. Someone who can make anything fun and loves life. A passionate lover.

I am all these things and more and will offer you the same in return.

I'm thinking I should let you know that I'm a pretty smart girl and can be a stubborn little princess sometimes...but a princess who is tough and not afraid to get dirty. I'm a bit of a non-conformist, don't like too many strict rules..but I realize there is a reason for them and would like to find a man with a strong personality who may be able to convince me to let him run the show. Otherwise...if you already know you won't be wearing the pants then I guess that's ok too as long as you already realize it and are ok with it. And don't be too wimpy...i like somewhat rough construction worker types...but who know how to clean up and smell amazing!!
Confidence will win them every time and is a big turn on for me...but not arrogance...there is a fine line. That is not the say all...I am flexable and am finding every day new things that I never knew i liked.

Please be warned...i'm not yet divorced and i have two little boys 6 & 8 who are a handful. Their father watches them whenever i ask...we do not have any set schedule, we are very flexible that way. Just remember i will always have two kids and if you want anything to do with me than please be sure you want something to do with my kids too.

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Do not contact me if you only want sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There are a million other websites you can go to for that!

I'm looking for more that just a sex partner. I'm looking for a man who knows what he's looking for. If your going to contact me you should be interested in having a family in your future. You should eventually want a wife and kids. Of course i'm not looking to settle for just any man that wants that in his life. Obviously our connection has to be right, strong, real...we'd be in love with eachother and know it was meant to be with out any doubts...until years later when we realize we made another huge mistake...haha Well, i do live in reality, it happens, but i'm willing to take that chance to try to find a life partner. I'm not ready to give up and be alone.

I cannot stress enough how important it is to be honest and not full of shit. Even if you mean well, and just say something as to not hurt the other person, that never works, cause in the end if you were not sincere and honest and didn't fully mean what you said no one wins. It was all just a big waste of time and you ended up hurting that person anyway.

Ok, so what have we learned thus far....

You will need to want a family eventually.
Don't want just sex!
Don't ask for nude pics!
Don't ask for a threesum! ha
Don't lie!
Don't bullshit!
Don't do drugs!
Don't be a drunk!


Hmmm, can you tell i'm tired of this crap! I just want to find someone who's going to love me, want me, want my kids, maybe even have one of our own, respect me, treat me as an equal, wants to go shopping...haha..is that to much???, wants to travel...to much again, huh

Ok well, i doubt i'll be getting the hundreds of emails i got before i added this little rant of an update, but whatever...this is how it is, the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth..so help me God!!! ha

I can't change the distance thing. The only choices are 75 miles and 20,000 miles??? Whats up with that? Prefferably, the closer the better. I have done the hour long drive thing and am kinda over it, especially cause all it got me was heartbreak and a bunch of miles on my Envoy.

PS. Yes i am sexy. Yes i love physical contact. No, your not gonna get any until you prove yourself. So just forget it. Don't contact me if you just want sex!

PSS. If i add you to my favorites it is because i liked your profile. If you liked mine then please send me a message...i typically do not make the first move and send an email. I want to be the chased not the chaser!

Thanks for reading, hopefully you read it all and understand where i'm comming from. The smart one's who want to email me, will type something in the subject line that will catch my attention.

Doesn't really matter, as long as we communicate and get to know each other.