I am a recovering beach bum, after having lived in San Diego...any chance I can get to the ocean I jump at the chance!!!......I am a single devoted Mother who adores my Bridgette, not looking for a father or sponsor for my child. I like to laugh; I have a great sense of humor. Great dancer, loves music! Especailly music of all genres. I am an extrovert and like to socialize, have been accused of being a social butterfly! Am a deep thinker and highly intellectual however, I am all about laughter and goofing around; very silly! I am spiritual, like to read, rollerblade,ameture surfer!!.. go to movies, and am passionate about photography, enjoy fine dining and love to cook! I particularly enjoy live music. I really love to travel as well, that is at the top of the list. I am tall and muscular, yet very curvey as well..........I like uncomplicated, no-drama, sincere people only. I have a close set of friends who ride their motorcycles a lot, I'd like to join them however I don't have a bike! Would love a leopard print vespa or in a bubble gum pink. I don't think I could keep up with the Harleys!!!!!!!! I like to camp and go on float trips, I am a beach bum at heart, especially after having lived in San Diego for a few years. My daughter is a well-behaved (that is a stretch, most of the time anyway) 4 year old. I am very cautious in whom she meets. I am not rushing to the alter AS MENTIONED, am a real slow mover in the relationship department. Am very SELF-SUFFIENT won't settle for any unhealthy relationships friends/love interests etc. I am highly intelligent yet a real goof ball as well. I am sardonic in a good way, not overly sarcastic however.......... I am always looking at the humor in any situation, comedic relief. A lot of people have told me I missed my calling as a stand up comedian.......I have a Chelsey Handler-like sense of humor. (don't be scared) I just lost my Father in December and have no tolerance for game players and see right through pretention and shallow insincere behavior albeit friends or love interests. I am not desperate to find a guy, it would be great however. I am very selective in whom I spend time with because I have very little spare time. I am a good person and ONLY surround myself with the same! I am very down to earth. Basically interested in meeting friends first and foremost. If a romance develops, even better!!!! Chemistry is HUGE. If some one is dishonest, misleading or not forthright..........please don't contact me!!! I have so little spare time and don't have tolerance or time for creeps, no offense to you creeps!! haha

Am VERY open to marriage one day!! I got married and divorced at an early age.....I realize what marriage really entails and there are woman who view it with a very skewed perception, "fairy tale like" and unless this person is your best friend and you work as a team, it'll NEVER work out.. You cannot buy a house plant with out watering it; marriage deserves the same amount of care and attention.it's a job really but rewarding if with the right person. My parents had a great marriage, 45 years. My father and mother treated each other like King and Queen and had date nights up until we recently lost him. I'd love to find a companion to share laughs with and be there for each other amid difficult times as well.......

Communication is key; I never mince words, and that is in any/all of my relationships.........I am very direct and poignant. I am thick-skinned and charismatic, however sometimes people do not see the sensative side..I hold my cards close to my chest. Furthermore, I have a very sunny exterior; sometimes people/fools view me as weak or a push over..and then sadly they are reminded of my strength and tenacity very quickly....... Not trying to come across as a bad ass, because I am not......I am very empathetic and almost take on the pain and heaviness of my loved-ones at time if they are down. I cannot watch the news, local anyway because if I see anything bad or disturbing that has happened to someone, especially a child or senior citizen, I literally cannot sleep..............I told my last boyfriend that I was a bit of a pistol, he pointed out that I am a "cannon ball" rather.............In having said all of the above.it takes a very strong man to hang out with me..............I do not like combative types; hate fighting. But watch out, I was on the debate team in college. I am full of energy most the time.........If you are threatened by a strong-willed chica, don't inquire.............I hope I have summed myself up as this entire online chatting thing is so new to me; swore I'd never do it.....When I care about someone I have their back 100%."You have never been loved until you have been loved by a LEO" am loyal to a fault but not a very good doormat.....NOW HOW MANY HAVE I SCARED OFF!? Lonnnnnng enough profile ay!?? Congrats to those who read it in it's entirity?

up for anything basically, live music, dinner or grab coffee....... Once I get to know someone, it is fun to pick a recipe, prepare it and drink some good itailan wine. I can enjoy upscale environments and get dolled up,. or sit at a dive bar that is not smokey and wear a ballcap and jeans.