I have decided to update my profile after being on here for some time. I have read many profiles and wow everyone wants a "model", no drama, no issues,perfect person. In reality we all have our faults and what one person can handle another might not be able to handle. Each individual is unique. Over the years however, I have decided what I do not want.... I like tall white males over 6'0" tall, I prefer someone who is young at heart but not neccessarily young in age. I am 40 and do not think of myself as old. I do not prefer to date anyone over 46, its just a mental block I have with the age thing as I do not prefer to date anyone younger than 34. I love to cook it is a passion that I have, I have recently sent a video to foodnetwork to be on the next food network star. I like to watch the leaves change in the fall it is so beautiful even though this is a precursor to winter blahhhhhhhh.... I like the smell of spring showers in the air. I like the smell of babies.
I believe in God and am very grounded in my faith. I do not push my religion off on anyone but I will tell you how good God has been to me. Please have some religious beliefs and faith in God.

I enjoy going out for a glass of wine or a****ail, but my days of drinking until the bar/club closes are far behind me. You will find me in front of the tv watching my Cavs or my Browns no comments please lol. I like to go out and be with my friends but I also enjoy my down time being alone or spending that alone time with someone special. I have two left feet lol if its not a line dance and it does not have an 8 count I am doomed lol .... I love old skool R&B's but will try to listen to any music including country.

I am not going to pretend I am perfect , I have many flaws but it is what makes me . ... me. I try my best to be a friend to someone and listen when I need to listen. I am getting ready to go back to school to further my Bachelor's degree and update it, having a Bachelor's is just not enough anymore in this economy.

I have recently made a good friend on here. He is a friend going through some tough times but inspite of his tough times and emotional upheavals he has taught me alot. I will not settle for anyone that is less than what I deserve. I have a lot to offer someone and am not afraid to show them that.

So this is me .. and if you would like to get to know me .. say hi .. Oh and if I say hello to you and you are not interested just say hello back and tell me happy fishing cuz I might do the same to you ... It's just the polite thing to do to acknowledge an email.

Every date is different. I don't know the person and they do not know me, so guess what how about we decide this together. Everyone is saying dinner , walks, whatever. You need to be able to do something that you can interact with one another, if you can't communicate with one and other how would you expect to know if things could go any further.

IF YOU ARE NOT SERIOUS ABOUT MEETING OR WANT TO PLAY GAMES, I AM SO PAST THIS AT THIS TIME IN MY LIFE .. PLEASE MOVE ON TO THE NEXT WOMAN THAT YOU CAN MANIPULATE..