Avid deep thinker and reader looking for a responsible adult woman. My life is full of wonder and surprises, yet structured enough not to be crazy.

Adventuresome women only- not afraid to get dirty, or explore the inner self.

My friends tell me I am a great guy, with an amazingly neat life!

If you "get" Dr. Laura- You'll "get" me.

If she or her opinions annoy you- Move right along...

Here's some quotes from Proper care and feeding of husbands (and yes that is what I desire to be- or LTBF anyway!

"Women have all the power in the world to determine the behavior of their men. This power is released when women practice Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands"

"men are simple creatures who come from a woman, are nurtured and brought up by a woman, and yearn for continued love, admiration, and approval from a woman"

From a male listener "Maybe there is a part of the small boy that never leaves the grown man, I don't know. All I know is that the husband who has a wife who supports him and praises him for the positive things he does is the envy of all the other men who have to live with criticism, sarcasm, and constant reminders of their failures"

"How did so many women get to this unhappy place if not understanding how truly simple men are in their requirements and how much benevolent power women have over them? Why did assuaging "male ego" and using 'feminine wiles' rocket into disrepute? How is it that so many women are angry with men in general, yet expect to have a happy life married to one of them".

"No, I probably won't be writing about the care and feeding of wives. Why? Because truth is that when it comes to home and relationships women rule. And your basic male is a decent creature....

I always admire people who are willing to look in the mirror, hold themselves accountable, have remorse for the things they've done wrong, and the willingness to repair and not repeat unpleasant actions. That is exactly what I hope all wives will do after reading this book. And if wives can't easily slip out of their "self centered" mode (it's all about my feelings) perhaps they could consider that the main source of of husbands bad attitudes, negative responses, and disappointing behaviors is the wives attitude toward them and their feelings. Plain and simple...

In closing- from a Dr. Laura Listener “A man is like a horse. At the end of the day he is usually rode hard, and put away sweaty. Like in the movies, if his master drives him and beats him, he'll go just so far before bucking and rebelling. If you love him, if you coax him, he'll drive himself till his heart explodes before he will let down his master. He'll give himself to death for the one he loves. Which way should a woman treat a man?

First dates can be a lot of fun, or real disasters. I like to keep them simple.

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