Hi, my name is James. I'm an athletic, intelligent New Age guy, which means I keep my mind open and am always learning about the world around me. I enjoy being active and getting out on hikes, going to the beach, and spending good times with great friends. I've done a lot of traveling, and visited Europe, Asia and the United States. I'd like to continue to travel as much as life allows. I've read a lot and enjoy have conversation with interesting people about books, life, what's going on in the world, as well as just talking and listening with people who have their own thoughts and ideas.

I believe honesty, trust, and communication are the three pillars of a great relationship. If any of those are missing then nothing long term can develop. That is at the deep end of the pool. On the more shallow side.... I want to meet a woman who is fun to be around, confident about herself, has her own purpose and goals in life, but still can share, support, and be supported by her chosen man. I'm not interested in any kling-on's, oh and Wallflowers need not respond either. My perfect girl would be able to go out one night to a Black Tie fundraiser and light up the room with her smile and personality, and the next night be able to go camping without being a drama queen over the bugs and outhouse. My kids are a huge part of my life, and they come first. Whether you have children or not does not matter to me, as long you love them and take great care of them and are doing your best to bring them up to be happy, successful and responsible for themselves.

Answer these questions for yourself...

Are you intelligent and smart?
Are you creative and funny?
Does Beauty radiate from you, inside and out?
Are you outgoing, or at least not shy?
Do you like to have lot's of fun?
Are you in control of your own life?
Are you a whole person looking to share life with someone special?

If you can answer yes to these questions and would actually like to meet (no penpals please) in person then send me a message.

First Dates are fun!! I usually plan things more for a second, or third date, cause let's be honest a first date should be light and enjoyable and comfortable, so that both people can feel relaxed and get a chance to see if there is any chemistry. I like to take in outdoor events for first dates, especially over the summer. Other great choices are: the beach, outdoor concerts/ festivles, houseparties/BBQ's.