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I am in the process of divorce but it is not official...January (There should be an option for divorcING !) I have been married ONCE for 18 years, for the record. It has been a long time in the making, so don't worry.....no jealous ex to show up on the doorstep. I'm an average girl...not a genius, not an idiot. l I have a big heart but I'm no pushover. Loyal to a fault. Adventurous. Dedicated. Considerate. I am young at heart (or maybe I'm just immature! oh no.... ) I am a romantic in the truest sense & value romantic gestures and feeling protected by my man. I have a strong sense of dry humor and wit, so if you can't take the heat don't get in the fire. LOL. I am educated and have opinions and common sense. Equal parts tomboy & lady. Stylish ---love to dress up & be elegant but often am in jeans, boots, and a ponytail. I don't feel the need to wear makeup to the gym or jewelery to the pool. I follow my own rules but I am affectionate, warm, caring & most of all, passionate. I am not a serial dater. I don't want your money. I am not here just looking for excitement in the bedroom. Eventually, I would love nothing more than to find one special person to fulfill and whom would make my life complete also...For now, someone that I can spend what little free time I have with enjoying life and exploring!

I enjoy the beach and the mountains. Skiing the slopes and long walks at sunset. Photography. Design. Family vacations and private intimate getaways. Hitting the town or relaxing in front of a vibrant fire at home with a glass of wine. Visiting new places & meeting new people as well as enjoying the intimate company of good friends. I love the arts & black-tie events as well as BBQ's or quiet dinners with family or friends. I spend lots of time with my kids - who will always come first. Thank God they are good kids! Music is therapy to me, so I enjoy fantastic seats at concerts or just going to sophisticated nightspots and seeing local bands. I enjoy watching as well as participating in sports. I am athletic and could probably kick your backside at hoops. Okay, maybe not but I will die trying. ;)))))

My ideal match is someone who is fit, or at least trying! I AM ATTRACTED TO THIN OR ATHLETIC BUILDS. Under 50, takes care of himself & has fashion sense. (i.e.no socks with sandals...haha) A cool guy with a great outlook on life. HONESTY IS A PRIORITY. I CAN HANDLE ALMOST ANYTHING AS LONG AS I AM CONFIDENT THE CARDS ARE ON THE TABLE. Is open-minded and compassionate, realizing things aren't always black & white. Can strike a balance between a good sense of humor and sophistication. A true romantic. A genuine person who is confident yet not arrogant. Gentle. Kind. Considerate of others. Attentive. Passionate. Patient. Loves to laugh. A nurturer & gentleman. I'm very attracted to men who can carry an intellectual conversation. Someone who truly enjoys conversation.

ps....I'm always open to new FRIENDS, also. :)

Best Wishes to everyone!

Hmmm... Whatever works... ;)