My name is Steve and I don't really fit into the big dull box that almost all people live in that’s considered to be “normal” and neither does my wife. We don’t want to be just two other small fish in the big pond of life. We have the ability and desire to be different. Our hearts are way too big to fit into any box with the lid shut tight to anything else. I need breathing room and space to create, to learn and to evolve into my greatest potential in life.
My wife and I have the capability and the capacity in our minds and hearts to share friendship, love and life with another woman on a daily basis and living in the same home. That's us and that’s just one of the things that sets us apart from most people.

I’m straight and so is my wife and because of that fact, we've set some boundaries for the type of relationship that we'd like to have and we're very firm on these things. My wife will not have sex with any woman for any reason. There will be no threesomes, only twosomes. There will be no tug of war between two women to gain one man's attention and love.

What I do offer though, is the fact that I have enough love to give to two women at the same time. You will be treated in just the same way as I treat my wife, but the relationship between all three of us will be the most important thing that we have together in life.
You will be given respect and honor. You will be appreciated and loved in just the same way as I respect, honor, appreciate and love my wife. You will be an equal with my wife and with me; you will never be a third wheel to either one of us. Being non-jealous and non-possessive will keep our bond strong and dedicated to each other.
I treat my wife really great because she's a really great woman; you'll be treated in a great way too. But I will NOT be any woman's sugar daddy, no matter what you think you have to offer. I'm not a desperate man by ANY means and I am Not in need of anything. My life is complete, I am fulfilled, but I have enough love in my heart to give to just one more really great woman too.

I love and thrive on taking care of my wife, her safety and welfare. I do most of our home repairs and remodeling, I really like taking care of our yard and garden and I like helping my wife. I take pride in having a very nice home and so does my wife. We like to keep things organized and clean. We’re not picky people or anal to the point of being obnoxious , but we do appreciate and take very good care of the things that we’ve both worked very hard to have in life. God has provided us with a very good life and we love Him.

We live a comfortable and quiet life on 5 acres and live the lifestyle of being environment friendly and very conservative. We try our best to cut back on the cost of living whenever we can. We recycle, we use solar and wood heating as our two main sources of heat, but we do have an LP gas backup system because we live in the country. We always look for ways to save money by doing as much as we can ourselves. Both of us smoke cigarettes, so we’re smoker friendly and I would prefer that you were a smoker too.

No date yet, my wife has some things that she'd like to say.

Steve asked that I (his wife) provide you with my thoughts about him.
He is straight forward to the point of being blunt. He has a heart that is bigger than all out doors. He works harder than 10 men half his age and can work them into the ground. He is fearless and will bull through everything and anything. People either love or hate him. He would not want to think that what others think of him bothers him but it does down deep. When he gives, it is with his total being. There are no halfway measures in him.

My husband is good at anything he puts his mind to. Put a tool in his hands and he creates! he helped me make the pattern for our grill cover and after years of not sewing I asked him to help me with quilting; I explained in sewing terms, he converted what I wanted into construction terms and he helped with the layout for a quilt that I made. He is the perfect partner on a team.
The energy that comes off my husband, comes off of him in waves. This energy he has is almost tangible, it is very physical. My husband runs! He does not go slowly at anything; he simply flies at whatever he is doing. The creative side of my husband shows in construction. He gets an idea or thought and creates it without putting it down on paper and what he builds is magical. I showed him a picture of a deck with a fire pit once and said that was something I would like to have and he built it for me.

My husband thinks about anything and everything. Mostly his brain is wired to make problems go away. If there is a way to fix something he is there and prepared to conquer.
Friday nights were usually laundry night. The music would be up and he would be “dancing” though the work. Now it is snuggling on the couch with a good movie or sitting in the sunroom watching the sunset and talking about life and the world around us. Now we do laundry on Sunday afternoons, I take a nap and he puts the laundry through the machines for me!

Let's talk here first and see if we have enough common ground to start a friendship. If we're compatible, we'll talk about the dating thing.