I prefer spending time with people that have a positive outlook. There are a lot of people on these sites that say that they don't want "DRAMA." I hate the word "DRAMA." People have things in their lives that they are working on...I think that in reality, we are all doing the best that we can. I've also found that they people that say that they don't want DRAMA usually have the most complex lives!

I've been out of the singles scene for a long, long, long time...Reagan Administration, I think! I am looking for someone to talk to and get to know first. I am happiest when I am making people laugh (or blush!) I don't play "games." When I get too much change back from a cashier, I give it back. If you have something on your face, I will tactfully let you know. I am pretty straight-forward...probably to a fault. Honesty and integrity are very important to me. When a party is slow my friends will often turn to me to liven things up. They think that I am outgoing, but in reality, I am fairly shy (at first!) My three children mean the world to me and are a priority, but because they are not with me all of the time, I have plenty of room for someone special (closer to my age!)in my life.

Physically, I'm stocky, but I joined a gym and am working out several days a week and I am starting to see results. I have all of my hair, which is important to some people. I like to keep is short, "wet" and "wind-blown," and I dress pretty conservatively. My ideal mate can express herself, communicate without becoming defensive or passive-agressive and love a good hug. (I've been told by some people that I give the best hugs that they have ever had.) I really have never asked much of my partner other than loyalty, good communication and honesty. I am really looking forward to making your acquaintance. I can't wait to meet you.

I am pretty low key...anything can be fun. I will wait until after a few meetings to try and show off for you.