***Online chat and email only please!***

Well, it's taken me a while, but I know now that I am looking for someone spiritually/philosophically compatible - done the good-looking bit, done the ahem well-hung duracell rabbit bit, but when it comes to longer term... (of course these need not necessarily exclude "soulmates" with other attributes!). Hence the choice of "I am looking for friends" - more would be great if we're both happy to be more than friends.

Into yoga, reiki and other healing therapies, I believe in God and an opposite, not necessarily bloke with beard and bloke with horns and tail; I believe in karma.
I'm bright, so you'll need to be capable of strange rambling BBCRadio 4 type conversations at midnight or dawn, and sensual so if we've reached that stage my requirements may be more energetic!

Oh and I like dancing and I would love to improve - takes two to tango though!-and singing, probably badly but I enjoy it.
Complement me, compliment me, be gently truthful to me and to yourself.You're probably funny -not in a "wacky" Beadle's About way but observational wry humour. You're presentable but not obsessively so (I recently went on holiday with a gay friend and he had a bigger cosmetics bag than I did!) You're looking for an intelligent but caring woman with all that being in my 40s means; gravity happens to us bigger girls!I have children so I can't always drop everything to be with you, but I'll never use them as an excuse to avoid you.

***No meetings possible until further notice***

Brunch! Conversation. Comfortable silence.Laughter. A well-worded text or email afterwards and we'll take it from there.

(and you know, I shouldn't need to say it, but... no I don't meet for nookie on a first date lol)

Age between 30 and 50
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke