Ok looking for ONE !! Nice woman after being separated for well over a year now and finally on my way to a divorce..I'm not into dating multiple women at all, I'm honest and love !! Being a father of 2 great girls, working out, my job, watching movies, playing video games, playing softball, spending time with family and friends. I have my kids on friday nights and getting sick of spending my Saturday nights alone. I feel you need to live one day at a time and appreciate everything you have in life.....Especially !! When living in the best country in the world. My time in the U.S. Army's 82nd Airborne made me realize this more than anything else. I'm a man who actually still enjoys to go out dancing to top 40 & old school stuff every once in a while. I also continue to stay very active by playing softball and other activities with my kids. Don't like !! Getting older, but staying active keeps me from feeling older. I'm not a real shy guy and I prefer, miss & enjoy cuddling to a good movie with the right woman and all the affection and passion that comes with having a good relationship...Hey separated guys like me need some luv'n to : ) really do miss them HOT nights of passion and them quiet mornings of cuddling together with a possibility of even more passion : ) I think I'm a pure example of how they say " The 40's is now the new 30's " I'm probably just an average looking man at best, but at least I'm NORMAL !!, have a heart, very affectionate, Honest, an athletic build, TOLD I'm a great father and have a great overall personality.

Not looking for a serious relationship at first and I do believe that being friends first is very important in any type of relationship, however you never know what might happen when the right one comes along and I guess that's what I'm really hoping for....Don't like to play games !! or a high maintenance woman...Love a woman who is family oriented, honest, great sense of humor, takes care of herself mentally & physically, has common courtesy and looks at life in a positive way. Physical attraction is important, but looks are not as important to me as long as your in good shape and have great all around personality...Having a great sense of humor is a a BIG !! Plus in my book because I'm usually pretty good at making people laugh and I would also prefer you to be a NON-SMOKER

I usually workout 5 days a week and I'm in good shape for a man my age. I also do my best at trying to eat right. Not rich !! But I do have a good job that pays the bills and work for a great company. Have my own place for pretty much the 1st time in my life and I'm lov'n it !! My 2 daughters 10 & 12 yrs. old, who I have 2 days a week are by far the 2 most important things in my life and " nothing or nobody will ever change that"

I think keeping things simple on a 1st date by chatting in person over some drinks or coffee is a great way to start and If things go well "who knows" maybe we can go dancing later on : )