I grew up in Hawaii, but I spent most of my adult life in Texas where my children and grandchildren still live. I moved to North Carolina two years ago to be here for my mother who is getting older and refuses to live anywhere else. The way I look at it is that she put her life on hold for years to raise me and this is a small thing that I can do to return the favor. Besides, I found out how much I like it here in and have decided to stay.
My life is pretty uncomplicated these days; I have made a conscious decision to keep it that way. I live with my dogs in a unique little house off any main road with just enough property where they, like myself, can run unleashed without fences or fear of being hit by cars. I am fearless, independent, shy around new people and strong and have a naughty sense of humor once I get to know them.
I have a child like amazement of simple pleasures like snow falling and the leaves turning. I see them as miracles of nature. Most of the things that I love are natural like sunsets, ocean waves and rolling hills. I do have a strong belief in God, but I have little use for organized religion.
I am not looking to get married, just one person to be with. The person that I am looking for must not be superficial. He is interesting and intelligent enough to keep my attention, not smothering, uncomplicated with a quiet sense of self-confidence. Most of all, he must want to be with me. I am not a jealous person and have little tolerance for it in another. I trust until I am given a reason not to. I want someone who does not play games or wnat to be just friends for a physical relationship. For the record, if you are married, don't even bother me! Shame on you for even being here to read this. I figure if you will cheat on someone with me, you will cheat on me too. Count your blessing, you have someone that, even though you might not see eye to eye, at least you could be working on making things better. I believe that making love is something very special that you give to a person you feel deeply about and not just a notch on the bedpost.

On a first date we should get to know one another so a coffee house would be nice.