I believe in love; life's most wonderful non-rational experience (i.e. not irrational, just that which we don't understand fully). That two people are capable of extraordinary heights and the deepest of human experiences when the chemistry provides the faith to let go, and not fear falling.

Living in as fast paced and stressful environment as seems to be more and more the case, I recognize that two people have to be grounded in a very profound love for marriages or long term relationships to survive. Only the chemistry with love enables the growth of mutual respect; the integral component to sustainable and sustaining relationships.

In addition to my business and professional activities, I am active in civic, charitable and not-for-profit organizations. I believe strongly in giving back to the community as a moral obligation. Also, I am a professional musician when time allows. I am patient in daily life but intolerant of injustice and negligence. I am very easy to live with according to everyone with whom I have ever dwelled (and not just because I am considered a good cook!)

I am seeking someone who knows how to have fun, i.e. has joy in their lives be it in the turn of a phrase or a wild and/or elegant night on the town. Or, just in the sharing of time, knowing that when I catch your eye we are sharing our souls. Sharing in --or the desire to share in-- artistic experiences and sensitivities would be a plus.

Kindness and civility are prerequisites; no screamers; good grooming; capable of independent thought; capable of righteous anger and of explaining why. Someone who has many and good friends, i.e. someone who doesn't define their whole life by the man they are with.

The "multiple choice" approach employed in on-line dating for matching people is limiting, so I remain very open to explore the dynamics and nuances of many types and styles of fellow seekers. If you want to be loved and cherished, pined for and adored, drop me a line.

First dates are for conversation; for discovering where we connect. Could be coffee, drinks and/or dinner, and maybe a walk. Of course we could also fly to Paris.