I am 5'6" tall, average weight for my height... blonde hair and blue/green hazel eyes, my friends all say that I'm a beautiful woman... I say they are being kind but do agree I have a little bit of something... God, which is, better then nothing!! I've been told that I am one of a kind! I am a sweet and sincere, honest person who can be shy at first, but warms up fast when I feel that you really have an interest. I’m comfortable in any social situation. I love the sun, water, boating, and anything that gets me out of the house in the spring, summer and fall.

Love to take walks, enjoy great conversation, watching the sunset on a beautiful evening or watching a storm come in and snuggling to the sound of thunder. I like to be outdoors, but when I say I enjoy the outdoors roughing it in the great outdoors now is not what I exactly mean. It's been a long time since I've been camping and it is not my first choice of outdoor activities, however If you have a Cabin, Camper or Winnebago... you could probably talk me into it once in awhile. I enjoy Football, Baseball and Hockey watching them on T.V. as well as being a spectator in the stands.... yes you've read that correctly!

I have an adventurous streak in me. I like to discover new things and experience them, however by yourself, they don't seem that interesting or fun to do. Just heard the biggest Cheeto in the world is in Iowa... huh that be something to see!

My friends have a nickname for me... which I think fits me well they call me Barb Vila... can you guess why???

Interests: Concerts, Computers/Internet, Cooking, Dining out, Fine arts, Gadgets/techie stuff (yes I can be sort of a nerd at times), Gardening, Listening to music, Massages, News and current events, Pop culture, Shopping, Watching TV, Traveling, Wine and gourmet foods. Sports I like to watch: Baseball, Football, and Hockey.

Turn-ons: Accents, Assertiveness, Brainiacs, Confidence, Erotica, Facial hair, Flirting, Goofiness, Intelligence, Manners, People in uniform, Public displays of affection, Sexy Tan lines, the unexpected, bald headed men.

Turn-offs: Liars, Braggers, Extreme Sarcasm, Couch Potatoes, Rudeness, Just Plain Evil People.

Music: Alternative, Easy listening, Hard rock, Classic Rock, and Soft Rock.

I want a BAD BOY... BUT A GOOD MAN!!
*An adventurous, fun loving, romantic, passionate man.
*One who knows how to treat a lady.
*Doesn't need to be around 24/7.

I need a man that has common sense as well as book sense. A man that takes care of himself Body, Mind and Soul. Looking for someone that likes to get out and do things, not just saying they like to, but actually does it. I have been single for a long time and really really dislike it. My friends are all married with kids and I get tired of being the third wheel. If you fit this description please contact me... I'd really like to meet you!!

I am NOT open to interacial meetings or dates. Sorry. just my preference. I am a giver in my personality and relationships. Not interested in someone who lives in another town, or state that more then 25 miles away. Sorry if your not local, you won't keep my attention long enough to really get to know me!


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"Live with a heart full of dreams, Love from the depth of your soul, Embrace every moment of laughter."


---------------------------Girls
--------------------------are like apples
----------------------on trees. The best ones
--------------------are at the top of the tree.
-------------------The boys don't want to reach
----------------for the good ones because they are
----------------afraid of falling and getting hurt.
--------------Instead, they just get the rotten apples
----------------from the ground that aren't as good,
--------------but easy. So the apples at the top think
---------------something is wrong with them, when in
----------------reality, they're amazing. They just
-----------------have to wait for the right boy to
--------------------come along, the one who's
-------------------------brave enough to
----------------------------climb all
-----------------------------the way
----------------------------to the top
---------------------------of the tree.

Something casual so we could talk and get to know each other... and if the chemistry is right see where it leads.