NO NSA or CASUAL SEX RELATIONSHIPS FOR ME - IF THAT IS WHAT YOU OFFER, PLEASE MOVE ON TO SOMEONE WHO WANTS THAT, I AM NOT THE LADY FOR YOU!!!!! I WANT A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP...THERE I HAVE SAID IT AND AM NOT ASHAMED TO ADMIT WHAT I WANT AND NEED!
I am a sincere, caring, kind, openminded, loving, attractive, intelligent, educated, nonjudgmental African-American Lady seeking the same in a gentleman. I know those terms, lady and gentleman, seem foreign to many but that is who I am and who I am seeking. I love to spend time with my family and friends, travel, attend cultural events, surf the web, and simply enjoy life. I like to try new things and will try just about anything once...I am a bit of a daredevil, life without risk is not living. Now, there is a difference between being an openminded daredevil and being blatantly foolish.
I do not have children, not looking to have any. Trust me I AM SURE of this. I need you to understand going in, that I don't plan on having any with you ;-) I have 30+ nieces and nephews that I love very dearly. I am nurturing and loving to children, so if you have children I am fine with that. I only want to communicate with a responsible loving father to his children.
I love animals and hope to one day open an animal sanctuary for strays. I am attending a local university studying social work and am self-employed. I am seeking a man to compliment me as we grow and gain together. If you are carrying hurt and issues from previous relationships, I am NOT a therapist yet so I can not help you with your problems. We all need a friend to lean on but I refuse to start a relationship bringing the past into it, mine nor yours. If you want to judge me by past women, again I am NOT the lady for you. I do not judge you by my past relationships and I desire a man that you can do the same.
I live a peaceful exsistance and plan to keep it that way. If you are a man who thinks strongarming, fighting and cursing is the way to communicate, (here I go again) I am not the lady for you. I believe in the man being the head with open communication and dialogue in which both parties can come to a decision. I look forward to hearing from you and best of luck in your search.
I think a great first date would be meeting up at a park and having a picnic. This allows us to comfortably get to know one another without any pressure in a safe setting.
