I am an honest loyal, hard working, mom fed up with the bar scene. Trying to move forward with my life, after tragedy took away my husband. Its been 8 1/2 yrs and I'm ready for that special feeling again. I am looking for some one who can make me smile and laugh,to be sensitive but not too sensitive. Knows how to be a man and remembers if we disagree there are kids involved that don't need to be hurt. Someone who can make a promise and keep it. oh yeah, and most important be sober for more than 1 hour out the day. If you have to get drunk to live your life than you need help to deal with your issues. Hey guys don't get me wrong casual drinking is fine but a 40 a day come on get a clue. Life is so worth enjoying with the right person I am hoping to find my right guy. One last remark I love kids but I personally do not want to have anymore but if you have kids I'm cool with that!!!

my ideal first date is going to dinner, a walk on the riverfront or a beach getting to know the other person cause i feel if you can connect on the first date you can start building that solid foundation for the future and i truely want a great future!!!!TROUBLE SHOOTING WITH IM MESSAGING TRY AGAIN IF AT FIRST YOU DO NOT SUCCEED THNX !!!!!!!!!!