Hello,My name is Deborah. My favorite color is pink. I like to write poetry and hand written love letters.I like music but I like music videos better.I think that I'm a good person and I have alot to offer.I'm honest and direct.I don't play games and I'm not looking for a quick "hook up" with anyone.I also keep drama as far away as possible! I try to keep my life in balance and surround myself with good hearted people.

One day I want to travel the whole world!I love to experience new thing's and I'm open to them as well.I want to change the world for the better and I try to do my part everyday.My goal in life is to achieve true happiness for myself.

I would like to meet decent people who are honest and mean what they say. I'm not into games or drama.

I would also like to meet people who actually want to know who I am and want me and not "someone like me".Because there is only 1 of me!

I'm not one of those barbie doll types either.I would like to meet people who are kind hearted,warm and friendly.People who have a great personality and who are not boring! I want to meet people who are interesting and smart.

Someone who is clean cut, Someone who takes care of themselves,Someone who doesn't use drugs,Someone who is confident, Someone who doesn't have any STD's or other types of illnesses.I like guy's who are on the preppy side but don't act as such.
Someone who likes to actually have a conversation and has idea's and who is creative.I like guy's who are smart and use interesting word's and phrases and have an extended vocabulary.I like guy's who know how to treat a woman right in every way humanly possible.

I'm a pretty simple girl (most of the time) and I lead a pretty simple life.I'm a private person,so please excuse me if I don't give away information so freely.
I like attention but I hardly if ever draw it to myself.I don't like to bother people either,so I'm not likely to return phone call's,emails or messages right away.I want to meet someone I can get along with and spend time with and get to know.
I think that there is someone special out there for me,I just have to find him,I'm looking for my someone special,someone to call my own,someone to belong to,someone to share time with,someone to like and maybe down the road even love.

All I ask is that you be yourself,be for real,mean what you say and be cool.If you want to get to know me then send me a message on yahoo because it seem's that POF has done away with their IM's,my screen name for that is gone_dutch.Don't be shy!

I want to post some of the thing's that I'm not looking for,they are as follows:
1.Men who wear hat's (a lot)
2.Bald guy's.
3.Black men.
4.Overweight men.
5.Drug users/dealers(no thanks)
6.Nobody who is sick or infected with anything.
7.Men with anger issues.
8.Men with trust issues.
9.Men with family issues.
10.Men who are arrogant and rude or snobby and uptight.
11.Men with facial hair.
12.Men older then 39.

A rather short list,but it's NOT what I want. Sorry if anyone took offense but I'm trying to be honest here. At least appreciate that much.


If your interested,heres the username to my space page...
XIDIVAHIX ...copy and paste it

What would I do for a first date? Hmm... well I would personally like to keep it low key and quiet.It's kind of difficult to actually try to have a “getting to know you” type of conversation at a movie or loud club. Wouldn't you agree?