Never make someone a priority in your life when you remain an option in theirs!

The worst thing is holding on to someone who doesn't want to be held on to. Don't fall for someone unless they're willing to catch you. So kiss slowly. Love deeply. Forgive quickly. Take chances & never have regrets. Forget the past but remember what it taught you...

I'm a big ol' bear of a guy that's been thru a divorce and just not into the bar/club scene. I'm hoping maybe this site will help. I'm 6'5" tall, and weigh 240 lbs. Due to my size, I've done a lot of bodyguard/personal protection work, as well as bouncer, security, etc. What I'm REALLY into, though, is computers and networking.

I'm looking, first and foremost, for a lady that can hold a good conversation. I like a lady that knows what she wants, and isn't afraid to ask for it. I'm not into drama or BS, so she shouldn't be either.

Nothing anywhere will ever be as truthful as what I'm writing down here and now.

I'm smart, and learned, but I can also be pretty dumb. I'm tough, but there's times I just need to be cuddled and told everything's gonna be okay. I'm passionate in my beliefs and my feelings. I'm strong, but not always. I still believe in magic, and I still believe in chivalry. I'm open, but sometimes you gotta pull the door wider. I'm someone that appreciates intellect, and the ability to hold a conversation. I'm a good guy, I really am.

There's a lot to me, there's no question there. Depending on my day, I can be smiling, or lost in thought. I believe somewhere there's a yin to my yang - the Bonnie to my Clyde. I HAVE to believe that. I can't see being alone for the rest of my life. I have a lot to give, and I really want to. I'm funny, I can see the humor in things that most people can't. I dream of a time when I won't be alone anymore. Just the idea of someone understanding me and taking me for who I am can make me smile at times.

Does any of this make sense to you? Is there a connection? I'm looking for someone that's in it to win it - just like me. Someone else who always wonders where their special person is, and when they'll find them - if ever. I'm right here, and I'm waiting to hear from you.

First dates are always stressful. Will she like me? Will she be scared of me? There's always SOOO much going on behind the scenes... Well, for a first date, maybe we'd just go miniature golfing, or hit a comedy club. Something fun, something that relaxes both of us, and starts to melt away all the stress. First dates can be kinda scary, and I would want to do my best to make my date feel relaxed and secure.