I want to be considered an asset in your life as you would be thought of in mine...

I do not need you,as you do not need me,to define or validate who we are. Rather, we choose and want each other in our lives...In other words, we did not settle just to be with"someone" .To have tingly butterfly feelings just looking into eachother's eyes or knowing what the other may be thinking though no words are spoken... To start out as friends and nurture and grow our relationship into something incredibly special, loving, passionate and ever lasting...To set a positive example for our kids to follow(if you have or not as I have 2)- now wouldn't that be awesome:)

I know that we truly need to be attracted to one another physically, emotionally and spiritually. I know that chemistry, compatibility, commitment, trust,level of passion,patience,honesty and being open minded also are critical.

I like myself and hope that you would not set out to change me as I would certainly not set out to do that to you...I will respect you and your opinions, likes and dislikes, as long as you do the same for me.I would love to learn,explore and be a part of your "world" if you choose to be a part of mine:)

To enjoy ,share and savor every moment of this journey called life with real, honest, genuine, unconditional love in the mix...Now doesn't that sound like a wonderful thing to have that is truly and quite literally priceless...I think so and believe it is possible...do you?

I want to meet someone special who wants to meet someone special and we can grow young at heart and full of laugh lines with and share in every moment of this journey of life that is passing us by ever so quickly:) To loved and be loved IS really priceless...

...Maybe we can ride off into the sunset on a Harley, in a convertible or even in a minivan...the point is...doing it together, whatever it may be..Now that sounds like a pretty good plan. It really is not about the "destination" but the fun in getting there... what do you think:)


About me- I adore being a mom to 2 terrific girls who are 10 1/2 and 14 1/2.Yes, they are my priorities but I also am much more than a mom and have so much more of me to share with a special man and his kids if you have or not.(Mine are w/ their father ever other weekend).
I can be very social yet I am very much a home body. I am very youthful,open and expressive,have a playful attitude,personable,classy yet casual,independent,thoughtful,intelligent,kind,trustworthy,giving,down to earth,happy,honest,energetic,and am very family oriented .My faith is very important to me .I love keeping everyone around me happy,doing art projects with my girls,making and keeping little traditions,cooking with my girls,holidays ,decorating, taking care of my home and family...I love being spontaneous, believe in going with the flow, not sweating the small stuff, surrounding myself with positive thoughts and am very much a kid at heart...I know when to be very mature and grown up also:)I do not always follow the "norm"..I do what feels right for me..I also am one who never gives up, I try to find a way to make things better and over come what could be a bad situation and make it into something good or better than it originally was. I believe in peace:)
I love to laugh,smile,dance, explore,volunteer, try new things,seek out unusual or unique places,travel,movies,zoos, art museums,convertibles,sandy beaches,jumping in mud puddles,making snow angels, theater,love the outdoors,bbq's, fishing, collecting rocks and love to never stop learning...I try to take care of myself and my girls and set healthy examples for them to follow...I try to stay aware of the latest health issues and keep up on world events and local happenings...
I would love to get all dressed up for you in a sexy black dress and heels for a formal night on the town but I feel most comfy in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt with flip flops-maybe heading to a baseball game and enjoying a beer and brat .
I am very artistic and creative and find beauty in imperfect things:)I have traveled and lived in other countries so I admire foreign places,different cultures and foods.
I am always keeping busy,trying to stay motivated and am not a couch potato for very long..I do love snuggling up to a good movie though or breakfast in bed on a Sunday morning or sitting together and having a conversation that lasts for hours...
I love long drives to no where special, yard sales,festivals, biking,walking landscaping,fine dining,pizza,watching the UFC,watching the discovery channel, reading fashion , health and home improvement magazines and being very involved in my girls' lives.I am very eclectic in every part of my life and love to mix old, antique or vintage with new and new and modern.I am not a high maintanance kind a girl- I love an unexpected phone call to go anywhere- and I am ready! I cannot live without music and laughter, it is a part of my being...
I am the "cool" mom( I was told!) all my kids' friends feel comfy being around because I like to have fun but maintain respect also:)I am a "mom" to many and I love that title:)
I love to talk,but am an awesome listener and will give you my undivided attention...I am a very sensitive, affectionate, "touchy/ feely",want to be close to you ,romantic kind of girl.If you are not that kind of guy... I would not be the one for you.I love surprise hugs and kisses and have no problem with public displays of affection- within reason- mind you:)I have a great memory and am always on time...I can stand on my own and be very strong. I can also be be very fragile and get my feelings hurt very easily too.I do have a very submissive side and love when a man can take charge.I love being a loving partner and I crave to be one. I am not perfect for certain- I have yet to meet a perfect man. I believe at this point in all our lives ,we have all experienced some series of unfortunate events..I am not out to judge you as I would expect you not to judge me.I do try to learn from my mistakes and make my self a better person and can admit when I am wrong. I am not one who gets excited over winning an argument, I hope you are not either..I believe that to agree to disagree is a "good thing".I believe that forgiveness is a virtue.I am a giver and hope that you have that quality...Giving and taking can have a nice balance.
Well, what do you think...Let me know...Please be serious, I am not into games or hurting you as I would hope you would not set out to do to me...Thank-you for getting to know a little of me...Peace, love and hope for us all:)

Hmm, that is always fun to think about..I think a date that is planned by two is the best date of all:)

It's fun to mix things up a bit-maybe we could go out for bbq food and laugh at what messy eaters we are while trying to maintain an intelligent conversation! Just an idea:)

Humor will get us through anything:)



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