Seeking that "one" real relationship and not a perpetual list of first dates. I seek that balance between having a great time, enjoying life, spending time with family and friends and that of responsibility. I would consider myself to be grounded and stable. Yet, I don't turn away from excitement, discovering new things or places, or trying something new. I firmly believe in a real and true relationship and that is what I seek. I value the friends and family I have. I value the person I have become and try to live my life as an honest person and someone that can be counted on. Nobody is perfect, and I'm not looking for the perfect person....just someone that is looking for a fulfilling, worthwhile and long term relationship and willing to put forth the effort to making that happen. But in the end, all I really expect from this site is to "maybe" be introduced to someone I would not have met otherwise. Sometimes it takes a little luck. Maybe you "are" out there somewhere! From there, let's just laugh and have a good time and see where it goes...no pressure. If it's not to be, we won't consider it a waste of time. So, let's hit a beach side pub somewhere out of the way and talk it over...

For a first meeting, something simple. Maybe meet for coffee or a drink. For a first date it might depend on our mutual interests, but could be as simple as a nice dinner, great conversation and then walking the beach or going to a local hot spot.

Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not do drugs
Must not be married